novelraw Chapter 1154: Is what kind of person he was in the past that important?
Chapter 1154: Is what kind of person he was in the past that important?
After Gu Qibao finished speaking, she paused and looked seriously at Di Jinxuan. "Actually, back then, I’m sure many people thought I was making a mountain out of a molehill. Moreover, at that time, I wasn’t completely unable to understand; even, even later on, I actually wasn’t that angry anymore.
But I was just stubbornly wanting to make a scene. So, Jinxuan, humans are multifaceted, and none of us can claim to fully, truly understand another person. Even though our friendships are so strong, at the end of the day, each of us has our own perspectives, thoughts, viewpoints, and personality traits. Hence, even with the same event, everyone has different opinions. For instance, Sister Xiaxia and Brother Di didn’t take it to heart at all, considering it nothing more than a joke among friends, while you took it seriously.
It’s like when I was pregnant and you said those words to me; what you said was undeniably true from one angle, correct in its own way. But to my ears, to my heart, I saw it differently. At that time, I felt you were only sympathetic towards your third brother, not caring at all about our twenty years of friendship. That’s why I questioned if you saw me merely as a breeding tool for the Di Family?"
Gu Qibao continued, "I’ve said so much, but what I actually mean is the same as what Sister Xiaxia means; everyone has different stances and ideas. The instant something happens and the time after, there can be many shifting thoughts from before to after. Nobody is fixedly unchangeable in their views. Sometimes what we see with our eyes, hear with our ears, or even think in our minds, can all be wrong. Nothing is absolute. A simple sentence, casually spoken without any other intention, might be taken by another person as an insult or a sign of disdain. These differences are very normal. Misunderstandings and conflicts between people arise precisely because we are different individuals."
Gu Qibao had a hard time saying so much, organizing her thoughts coherently and logically. Even though it was a bit profound, it was still quite comprehensible.
"Wow," Nangong Ran couldn’t help but speak up, "Gu Qibao, Sister Xiaxia, both of you are so philosophical!"
Gu Qibao scratched her head, "Actually, after all that, I don’t even know what I’m saying."
"Me neither," Di Xiaxia admitted with an embarrassed smile, her eyes directly meeting Di Jinxuan’s, conveying pure sincerity, "But I believe what Sister Xiaxia and I want to express is the same; that is, the past words between Brother Di and me were really just in fun, not meant to be taken seriously. Moreover, Jinxuan, if you have feelings for him or have fallen for him, why should it matter what his past is?
Is what kind of person he was in the past really that important? I think what you should care about is whether he is the man you want after you’re together."
"This statement is great," Nangong Ran gave a thumbs up, speaking earnestly, "Who doesn’t have a past? It would be too rash to dismiss a person based solely on their past."
"Yes," Di Xiaxia nodded, "I have a past too, but my elder brother doesn’t care about it. If he did, we never would’ve made it to this day. In fact, my past made me feel like I was a woman who couldn’t find happiness, but I was wrong. When I met my elder brother, I just thought my happiness was a little late. So Jinxuan, if you’re fixated, then speak up. Simply ask him and clear the doubts in your heart."