Your uncle spoils his father

Chapter 30 Can this meal time be considered...

What can I think about during this meal time, even what to eat tomorrow morning, right?

It's too much to come here so quickly to ask such a thing.

Lin Yichen came so suddenly that Zhou Jingwei, who was already in a mess, boiled the mess into a pot of paste in an instant: "I said I will think about it, but the time you give is too... ..."

"Everyone is an adult, and time is precious. What's more, the more you think about this kind of thing, it will only make your mind more chaotic. The reason why I came here is that I only want an answer 'yes' or 'no'. "

Others say that time is precious, Zhou Jingwei may believe it right now.But this unemployed person who is idle at home every day says that time is precious, which seems to be a little bit unconvincing.

"But there are many, many other situations."

This kind of thing is not something that can be solved with a single agreement.What to do with the child, how to tell the child?Where are the parents?Neighbors, company units...

People in this world are not always alive as a completely independent individual, and the communication links between people will always exist.

Then how should we face these people?

It is impossible not to keep in touch for a lifetime, and others may avoid it, but the barrier of children is absolutely unavoidable.

Zhou Jingwei couldn't imagine what his own children would think of him as a father in this kind of thing.

If you really get involved with this man.

Will it cause any harm to the child's psychology, and will it become the laughing stock of others again.

Zhou Jingwei felt a pang of sadness in his heart. When he mentioned the child, he also knew that he owed the child something.

Not to mention anything else, just because of my divorced status, I have lived in the gossip of others.It's not easy for children to come over these years. Neighbors in the neighborhood chat a few words intentionally or unintentionally, and they don't shy away from them in front of their children.

But these children have been clever since they were young, and they really remember what others say.But this child likes to keep things in his heart, and rarely talks about outside gossip with his family members.

Every time I wait until I find out, it is basically the teacher's report, such as fighting with classmates.

And there is no way for parents to determine their attitude.

He couldn't imagine what kind of expression his parents would show if they knew that their son had really found a man as a partner.

In short, there are simply too many things to consider and weigh.As an adult, the above-mentioned things have been burdened in his life, and he has no way not to think about them.

"I don't care about those circumstances. I just want your answer. I just want to know your attitude towards this matter." Ever since the question was asked in the morning, Lin Yichen had made up his mind to break the boat: "If you agree, I can face it with you, inside and out."

In the past, he always wanted to leave a way out for himself, a way out where he could get along with each other even if the other party refused, and live in peace.

It's just that this way out is really hard to find, or maybe there is no such way out in this world.

Since there is no way out, let's go to the bottom of the boat.

"What about your family? It's impossible for your family to know about this situation, right?"

Lin Yichen looked up at the ceiling, and sighed helplessly: "My family knows about my situation."

When he mentioned his family, he did feel a little guilty. Because of his orientation, his parents also had a lot of quarrels with the neighbors in the neighborhood.

My parents are relatively well-educated people, and the intellectual atmosphere in the family is quite strong since childhood.And in my memory, before that incident came out, the relationship between my parents and other neighbors in the neighborhood was quite good.

It's just that after that incident came out, the way the neighbors looked at him and his parents changed.

Even though he later clarified his innocence, the fact that he likes men has already fallen into disbelief. Some neighbors are too old to accept this situation, and they avoid him like the plague.

He even suffered a lot of grievances with his parents. On this point, Lin Yichen felt that he really owed his parents.

Fortunately, my parents expressed their understanding and shared a lot of pressure for themselves. It’s just that they always run into some neighbors when they go to and from get off work. They don’t know what to say, but those weird eyes look like they are performing acrobatics in a circus animal.

Later, he still decided to move out to live. Those neighbors would not see him, at least they would not have any opinions on his parents.

"Someone can see me like this, I'm actually a little happy." The expression on Zhou Jingwei's face is not as happy as he said, but a little lonely: "It's just happy to be happy. Lin Yichen, we will eventually be happy." Get back to reality."

Of all his ideas about life, there wasn't one about spending the rest of his life with a man.

When working, he would ask his subordinates to come up with at least three sets of plans for each client, but in this case, he doesn't have any set of plans at all.

"I've been living in reality, and you've been dreaming about your future life."

"However, there are always things to consider..."

"You're right, these things really need to be considered—but not now." Lin Yichen seemed to have realized something at this point, and changed the subject, "Or you plan to agree to associate with me, so you are thinking about the future. Life?"

The other party's words directly made this somewhat conservative man blush: "I... I didn't, you talk nonsense!"

Why is this Lin Yichen so shameless!Saying such things in broad daylight, I really don't know how to be shy!

The man's sudden shyness somehow hit a certain nerve in Lin Yichen. ——This person is still as cute as before...

"Actually, I'm not going to do anything to you, so you don't have to be afraid." Lin Yichen still leaned against the door and did not enter the room, but his eyes were fixed on the people in the room. When I was young, I just wanted to find someone I liked, to support each other and spend the rest of my life together."

After saying this, the two fell into silence again.Zhou Jingwei also turned his head away deliberately, facing the blackness like stagnant water outside the window.

I don't know how long it took, but finally the house came back again, and a voice broke the silence: "Go into the house and talk, and lock the door."

"It's not impossible to communicate, but I have one condition - we can't tell outsiders about our relationship."

After thinking about it, Zhou Jingwei realized that he was a widow and had nothing else to covet, so the final focus still fell on his son.

He didn't want his son to be judged by outsiders because of his own affairs, and this kind of thing usually wouldn't be good for others to say.

Once known by others, your child may become a "freak" or even a "child of a pervert" in others' mouths.

He can make corresponding concessions in other aspects, but there is no room for negotiation on the child's affairs.Because children are the most innocent, but if something happens to the parents, the children are often the ones who suffer.

Prejudice is a very terrible thing, and it will take root in people's minds unconsciously.As long as one condition is met, it can be triggered immediately.

It may even affect future generations.

The most obvious ones are parents and children. In the eyes of those people, "parents commit crimes, and children steal girls and prostitutes" is a matter of course.

Coupled with the three words homo/sex/love, in their impression, they will not get any benefits, and they will even be degraded into the image of a monster.

He doesn't want all kinds of things like this to affect his own children. If this can't be passed, then there is no need to talk about the rest.

Children are always his bottom line, as long as this bottom line is touched, there are basically no need to talk about many things.

Regarding his conditions, Lin Yichen's answer was very simple: "No problem."

Such a simple answer made Zhou Jingwei, who is good at analyzing customers' words in his usual work, suddenly lost his direction.

ha?Is that a promise?

Zhou Jingwei stared at the other person's face in surprise, he never thought that this person would agree so readily.

Just like when renting a house and paying rent.

Every time he encounters this kind of negotiation, the other party's willingness to never bargain always catches him by surprise.

"I can understand your feelings. Besides, we live together, and there is no need to tell the world."

To be honest, there was nothing to say. He thought that the other party would offer some excessive conditions, but this man was as sincere as ever.

Lin Yichen also sees this kind of thing quite clearly. After all, there is no law that can effectively protect the relationship between the two of them.

So the two get along entirely by conscious restraint.

What's more, I will work in the same unit in the future. This is to let others know about the relationship between the two, which will definitely cause a lot of gossip.

So it's good not to tell outsiders, after all, no one knows who the friends in their address book will become a group of friends with.

Now that the Internet extends in all directions, everyone knows about small things like sesame and mung bean.

Who in the circle of friends went on a trip, whose child got 100 points in the test, who fell in love, and who broke up again-these are all everywhere.

Of course, he still doesn't have the habit of posting on Moments, except for some congratulatory messages that he sends during the holidays, the rest are really deserted.

Of course, this has something to do with his not wanting others to know too much about his life.

Zhou Jingwei's circle of friends is also very clean, basically it is the official account content forwarded.

As soon as you open it, you will be greeted with health care, family care and parenting, gourmet recipes, etc., full of life breath.

After hearing his answer, Zhou Jingwei sent people away after he waved his hand: "That's good, let's leave it like this for now. You go back and rest, I will have to help with homework later."

"Did you agree?"

That's it? That's it?

Lin Yichen was suddenly very astonished and felt that he was not from this world.

It's not the same as the expected progress!

It's not that there should be some happy hugs together, and then say a few sweet words of love, and it would be even better if they could kiss each other in the end.

Why did it get deleted here?

"Otherwise, what do you think?" Zhou Jingwei rolled his eyes again after saying that—here and again, this person started to be stupid again at a critical moment...