novelraw Chapter 959
Chapter 959
"Let me give you a simple example. When you walk on the street and see the exquisite cakes in the window, you like them very much, but you can't buy them without money. You have to look at them every time you pass by. You feel that every decoration on them is so charming. One day, when you have money, you rush in and buy the cake that you have been longing for for for a long time, but you find that you don't like it so much, even you are tired of it. Why are you so obsessed with that cake at that stage? Because what you are obsessed with is not the cake, but what it symbolizes. The symbolic meaning of the cake attracts you. For example, the stable life and stable material are the same as people. Some people even like the feeling of being an infatuated lover, pretending that they are the most affectionate person in the world. On the contrary, the person "infatuated" by them is not so important, just a meaning, This is the mentality of 95 secret lovers, but it's not easy to rule out that there are 5 people who bite down after they get it. They really like it
Xiaoqian compares secret love with the simplest example. To analyze it from a psychological point of view, she can talk for two hours with all kinds of professional terms and all kinds of analysis. However, compared with Hai Zhao, the theory is useless, so it's better to compare it directly.
"But the cake is hiding from me now. How can I know if it suits me if I don't try it?"
Haizhao is full of bitterness now. After a while, he lost his whole world.
"Chen Xiaoqian, have you ever felt the taste of secret love? I gave her the best part of my youth. All these years I thought about her, but she didn't give me a chance. I would rather she refused it directly than she used such a cruel way, such a way
"If you really can't put it down in your heart, I'll help you identify your feelings for her because I've eaten so much of your delicious food."
"You say it Haizhao angry, he can't accept Xiaoqian said he is not true love to Xiaoxi.
"You first empty yourself, throw away all your feelings, don't think about pain, don't think about her, don't think about anything, follow my rhythm, only answer my questions by intuition."
Xiaoqian first spent a few minutes to help Haizhao pull out of his heavy emotions. When he no longer focused on a certain point, she started a formal conversation.
"In your memory, what is the most touching picture of Yu Mingxi? Answer by intuition, no thinking, 3, 2, 1, answer!"
"I like her standing on the stage, singing military songs, you know, her voice is very good, the white military uniform of the art troupe on her body, is really the best of the handsome play."
Hai Zhao answers by intuition.
"When was that?"
"She sang a song on stage at the military region performance that year when she first joined the army."
"Sister Xiaoxi is a literary and artistic soldier. She joined the army on 13 or 4, right?"
With this guy, not only does he have a secret love, but he also has a paedophilic tendency?
"I didn't do it when she was young!" Haizhao defends herself, Xiaoqian shrugs.
"I'll admit that you still don't have the courage to tell people."
"Don't poke other people's scars, you feel sick all over?" Hai Zhao became angry again.
"Well, I see. After you go back, you paste pictures of Errenzhuan actresses on your bedside for two days. You need to see them every day. Especially before you go to bed, you can feel whether you feel light about Mingxi. If you don't feel light, you can replace them with photos of stars. All kinds of stars are pasted around. If you can get cool photos of female u in island love movies, It's OK, too. "
Haizhao is shocked by Xiaoqian.
"Chen Xiaoqian, what are you doing to me?" What kind of mess is this?
"I am very serious to help you distinguish. If you think about the feeling that Mingxi still likes after you have pasted all kinds of photos for a month, I will give you Morita therapy. The principle of Morita therapy is to let nature take its course. If you still insist after my treatment, it will rule out that you just like it for the sake of feeling and prove that you really love Mingxi, I'll give you further advice. "
"Chen Xiaoqian, can you really help me?" Haizhao thinks Xiaoqian's method is curious, but now he really has no one else to ask for help. He can only look at Xiaoqian helplessly.
"There is a great man once said that Xinqian always has eternal life. If you want to be comfortable in the second half of your life, do it according to my requirements. I can guarantee that whether your other half is Yu Mingxi or not in the second half of your life, you can live happily, and you won't be hard to get kicked in a certain year or month."
"What did you say?"
Haizhao didn't hear the last sentence clearly. Is it a hallucination?
Xiaoqian blinked, "you heard me wrong."
"Oh, which great man would say that?"
"Yu Guangming."
"Well, you win!
Separated from Haizhao, the officer's driver comes to find Xiaoqian. She wants to take the officer's car back to Lincheng. Xiaoqian looks at the time and makes time to call Yu Mingxi.
"He cried." Xiaoqian is sure that when Xiaoxi hurts Haizhao, Haizhao really cries.
It's just that he quickly turned around and left his tears to himself.
"Oh, did you pass him a tissue?"
Yu Mingxi's voice is very calm. She can't hear sadness and happiness. She can hide her emotions too much.
"I didn't hand over the tissue, but I introduced some excellent girls to him. Hai Zhao is also a boss, and his price is not low. The green diamond you don't want is a bunch of girls waiting to chase him."
There was silence for three seconds on the other end of the phone. It was the unusual reaction of these three seconds that made Xiaoqian confirm one thing.
Yu Mingxi never shows that he doesn't care about Haizhao at all.
But this care, in the end is a friend, or like the people, this Xiaoqian is not sure.
"Introduction, it's all free, whatever he does, I'll hang up." Three seconds later, Yu Mingxi answers Xiaoqian with the same flat voice.
"Wait a minute. Xiao Xi, I've always wanted to ask you a question. "
"If you want to speak for Hai Zhao, forget it. I'm sorry that he likes a woman with a hard heart, but no one can force me to do what I don't like. If he continues to do so, it will also interfere with my normal life."
"I don't say anything for Hai Zhao. I just want to ask you one thing. A few years ago, you had insomnia and often dreamed. I cured you. Do you remember?"
"Yes."
"Remember the snake in your dream that you held in your hand?"
"Of course, I didn't dream that dream until I met you."
"Snake, there are many explanations for appearing in women's dreams. At that time, I was very confused about why you bound your own feelings. Now I finally understand." Xiaoqian saw Mingxi for the first time and helped her solve the problem of insomnia. At that time, Xiaoqian was curious. Yu Mingxi's dream meant that she had bound her feelings. She used her strong self-control to control her feelings.
Today, Xiaoqian finally solved the puzzle.
"What do you understand? Will you know what I don't know? "
"I know, Yu Mingxi, please allow me to formally ask you, as a psychologist, about my patients with insomnia for a long time. Mingxi, who is the man who lives in your heart? "