Chapter 943
Chapter 943
Nowadays, there are more and more people living in buildings, but this kind of simple feelings is less. These old men must really care about the bright. Otherwise, how can their father who is more and more bright come to teach him?
Although it is a black dragon, but Xiaoqian still feel that such feelings are worth maintaining.
"That's true. If we have children in the future, we can't be wrong in ideology and morality. When children grow up in the army, they bring their own patriotic education."
Xiaoqiang has the most say in this matter. When a child goes to the courtyard, he meets an elder and drags him over. He nags for a long time. From the war of resistance against Japan to patriotism, he doesn't want to listen. When he goes to school, history class has its own advantages.
"In fact, sometimes I think it would be nice if relatives could keep the same distance as neighbors."
Xiaoqian sighs that Xiaoqiang has something to do with her family when she hears that her daughter-in-law is suddenly in a low mood tonight?
"How can you ask that?"
"Today, I saw the relationship between father and ball. I couldn't help thinking about me and my brother."
"Can't you hit these eight Is this little thing worth his daughter-in-law's attention?
"There's something in common. Do you think Dad is hateful? In fact, he is also very poor. He wants to arrange a future for his children, but he doesn't know that what he arranges is not what the ball wants. As friends of the ball, from our point of view, it's very annoying to interfere in other people's future
Isn't this the embodiment of special kinship under special national conditions?
Parents are used to taking everything from school to marriage to coaxing their children.
Yu Guangming nodded and motioned her to continue.
"I'm also reflecting on whether it's right or wrong for me to make a good arrangement for Dalong's future. He's young and pure, but he hasn't seen the market, and he thinks it's relatively simple. Is it really right for me to make a good future for him by coaxing and deceiving him like this?"
Taking people as mirror is a dilemma that top psychologists can't get around. They always find their own problems in other people's problems.
i see! Xiaoqiang finally understood why her daughter-in-law was still fine during the day. When she saw her father, she suddenly lost her mood. After a long time, it was because of her brother.
"There is a saying that children and grandchildren have their own happiness, but you say that children and grandchildren like Dalong, according to his simple brain circuit development, what happiness will he have?"
Xiaoqian is not a alarmist who belittles her brother.
What happened in the previous life can be seen clearly. That child is easy to deviate without limiting his development, but he is not a bad child in essence.
"You don't want to think too much about the problem. The situation of your family is different from that of the players." Xiaoqiang is on Xiaoqian's side. He doesn't think his daughter-in-law is wrong in dealing with the problem.
"In a sense, dad is also for the sake of the ball. Although his way seems stupid to us, his original intention is for the ball. I think I'm also for my brother. Isn't that the same?"
Xiaoqian can't stop this curve.
According to the idea of laissez faire freedom, she should not interfere in the affairs of Dalong, but she can't see that he is the same as the previous life, one side is emotion, the other side is reason. Standing at the fork of the road of contradiction, she always has all kinds of feelings.
"That's different. You and Qiu Qiu's father are different in essence. First, his method can only get a wrong result in the end, but you can certainly teach an excellent younger brother. Second, Qiu Qiu has never asked his father to help him decide his future from beginning to end, and Da Long has always depended on you. He asked you for help on his own initiative. He trusts you and will discuss everything with you, There is a passive and active relationship. Third, the subconscious of Dalong is to accept your sister's arrangement, while the subconscious of Qiuqiu is to exclude his father, so there is no comparability between the two. " Xueba is good at grasping the key points. Xiaoqian seems to be more comfortable when he says so.
In fact, we all know the truth, but if someone can help us, we will have a different feeling. Xiaoqian stands tall, and there are only a few people who can help us. We all look up to her, rely on her, and even regard her as a God. But there is such a person sitting flat beside her, who can tell the truth when she is confused.
"What worries me most is that we have tried our best and failed to educate him well. If he is crooked --"
The shadow of her previous life has been lingering in Xiaoqian's heart. She has seen her younger brother become a dandy, and she is always afraid that she will not educate him well.
"He's crooked. You beat me up."
"Why am I beating you?" She looked at him strangely. In his heart, was she such a violent person?
"I'm responsible for this. My daughter-in-law is the decision-maker of the action, and I'm the executor. The decision you sent to Dalong is heroic, correct, and absolutely no problem. If the education is not good, it's the problem of my executor, and my daughter-in-law will always be right."
"It's just you." Xiaoqian can't get around the bend for such a long time, so he can easily persuade her.
Other people's men are eager to hide when they have something to do. This silly boy rushes up and falls into Qian Zong's eyes. The more he looks, the more he feels that he is especially responsible.
"Seriously, can the army that Dalong is about to enter really lead him?"
Xiaoqian in the end or not at ease, she always feel that his brother is a little hopeless.
After she came back, she always paid attention to his education. In her study, she and the rich and the noble all grasped it by themselves. She and the rich and the noble got three books for the study test. If she didn't make progress in life, she always wanted to take a shortcut. The dignified female boss said that it was impossible not to be hit.
Let alone just a younger brother, that is, his own child. It's not good to make a big plan for others' life. People who come back have not been trained, and they are not as good as Dad. It's very infuriating.
"The army is just a big environment. Just like rice, it can support hundreds of people. No matter how good the environment is, it can't be a hundred things. However, from an objective point of view, the dragon is not a child with many sins. If you give him a direction, he will know how to fight. In fact, you should not always look at the dragon with subjective consciousness."
Xiaoqiang noticed that Xiaoqian's attitude towards her younger brother is particularly interesting. The accurate profile is that she loves and hates her brother, and that she hates iron but not steel. Xiaoqian thinks that everyone can objectively analyze her younger brother, but thinks that her younger brother is very bad.
Where does Xiaoqiang know that Xiaoqian's subjective consciousness of Dalong comes from the shadow of her previous life. She can't forget how the troublemaker cheated her all her life and dragged her back.
But she can't forget how her brother, a fool, defended himself and his mother when she came back. When these two feelings intertwined, they became complicated.
"It's OK. I'm here. Don't think about anything." He bowed his head to kiss her, and Xiaoqian dodged.
"Friends now? Keep your distance
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