Return of the Antagonistic Lady Boss

Chapter 886

Zhu's daughter-in-law came in. She seemed to have cried and her eyes were a little red.

She is chatting with Xiaoqian's mother outside. She doesn't know what she's talking about. She talks about the sad place.

"Sit down, sister-in-law." Xiaoqian's tone towards her was obviously milder than that of Zhu.

She can see that this sister-in-law is really a fan of herself.

She can also see that this sister-in-law has really come to a point of collapse in her life. If she is not desperate, how can she show such a look for help to a stranger? Sometimes her unintentional indifference may make the loveless lose their last desire for survival. A little help may help the desperate regain their hope.

"Xiaoqian, shouldn't I tell you this? After all, you are Zhu's relative. I" this is also the reason why Zhu's sister-in-law feels desperate outside.

She really has no one to talk to. She knows that Xiaoqian may not help her, but she can't control her desire to talk.

"For doctors, there are no relatives. If you come to me and sit opposite me, you will be my consultant. If you don't want to call me Xiaoqian or Meiwei, you can take it as the emotional phone of the radio station. Don't think about who I am, just tell me if you have something to do."

"Well, I don't know where to start."

"You already have a child, don't you?"

"Yes, my daughter's name is Xiao Li. She is an introverted child. She is naturally different from other children." Mentioning her daughter, Zhu took out her wallet from her pocket and showed it to Xiaoqian.

Is a very thin little girl, shyly looking at the camera.

"With all due respect, her hand --"

Bring up this topic, pillar sister-in-law's eyes are red, tears will come down again.

"As soon as a child is born, her right hand is six fingers. The more she grows up, the more introverted she becomes. Especially after going to kindergarten, other children are curious why her hand is different from others. She cries and says that she doesn't want to go to school. Such a small child has not learned all her words, but she has inferiority complex."

Maybe for other children, asking about Xiao Li's fingers is not necessarily discrimination or anything. It's just a child's natural curiosity, but everyone is paying attention to it. The child's psychology will certainly change, and there will be inferiority feelings. Gradually, the child will become more and more introverted.

"I listen to pillar say, the child cried you don't hold her?"

"I also worry a lot about children's affairs. I checked a lot of foreign parenting books. I read that if you want your child to be independent, don't hold her. She is six fingers. What will you do if you don't improve yourself?"

"She's three years old. Is she a full year old or a false one?"

"Xusui, we also found several kindergartens to accept such children in private kindergartens. Her father has a big opinion on me. The cost of a small class is 200 yuan a month. He thinks I should quit my job and take care of my children at home. "

"From six months to two years old, there will be a cycle of emotional attachment. At this stage, the baby may have some anxiety and need more parents' love. Often hugging her and meeting her emotional needs can help her reduce anxiety. What is written in the parenting book is not always correct."

"Ah Sister Zhu was surprised.

"With all due respect, why do you insist on going to work instead of giving her more company? Her current situation should accept professional psychological counseling, because her individual situation is somewhat special. She is in a period of emotional needs. When she goes to the kindergarten, she realizes that she is different from others, which will make her anxiety more serious. If she continues to do so, her baby's character will be affected when she grows up. " Xiaoqian after rebirth, in order to better take care of their children, specially added child psychology, these can also give professional advice.

Mention this, pillar sister-in-law cover face tears.

"It's not that I'm cruel, it's that I want to save money for my child's operation! Her father didn't want to do it for the child. He said that the child's grandfather and uncle are both six fingers, and they don't do surgery. Now they are living well and are not affected at all. I know that he is a girl and doesn't want to invest in the child. "

Mothers can't let their children go.

Six fingers are different from other congenital diseases, which will not affect the self-care of life. However, these people did not expect that their children might be looked at differently when they grow up.

By the way, Xiaoqian remembered that her cousin, who was good at making wooden furniture, was really six fingers. She looked curious when she was a child.

Most of this curiosity may be due to the strangeness of people who are different from themselves. It may not contain malice, but when most people look at it like this, their eyes will bring a devastating blow to the people they are looking at, resulting in inferiority and depression.

"This kind of operation is not expensive. It's better to do it before primary school." Xiaoqian supports the operation on children.

"That's what I think. So I told her dad that I had to make money by myself. I always had to take care of my children when I was a father. What I earned was less, but it was enough to save. I tried to do the operation before the children's primary school."

"In that case, why do you want to give him a second child?" This is not psychotherapy, but Xiaoqian's understanding of the situation.

"Because of work, we always quarrel. Sometimes I want to have a stable relationship again."

"Confused. Remember, never give birth to a child to save your feelings, because the contradiction has not been solved. When you don't solve the original contradiction and get into new trouble, it will become a bigger contradiction. I give you the assumption that if one day your marriage ends and you have only one child, you can leave with your daughter and have another, If you take one, you will lose one. What will you do then? If the second child is still a daughter, what are you going to do? A daughter would be miserable without a mother. "

Xiaoqian's words are cruel, but to the point.

The idea of having a son to keep the marriage was wrong from the beginning.

No matter whether a son is born or not, he has already regarded himself as a tool for giving birth to a child. What if he has a son?

The husband does not care about the children, but only gives his son a pair of open crotch pants to bask in the birds everywhere, so as to show the happiness of the successors.

What about motherfuckers?

If a man lacks a sense of family responsibility and refuses to let go of the patriarchy under the idea of straight men, he can only give birth to more women who are not old enough.

At that time, don't say love, the rest of your life is only work.

If the second child is a daughter, it will be even worse. There are only endless white eyes and sarcasm waiting for her.

"Then what can I do? I'm desperate now. I think I'm a failed woman. When my child was born, I would cry in the middle of the night. I couldn't sleep all night. At that time, I wanted to die with my child. What's the hope of living? Every night I was in a panic. It's better to go to work. But when it comes to having a second child, I'm conflicted. I want a second child later, After a while, I felt that the second child was terrible. " It seems that there is also postpartum depression. Xiaoqian sighs in her heart. It's a house leak. It's even raining at night.

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