novelraw Chapter 779
Chapter 779
"I will ask my counselor if this man is still worth detaining. If he has been violent for many times, it will prove that he has lost his mind and exposed his personality defects. Such a man is not worth detaining no matter whether he has love or not. While helping the counselor to find himself again, I suggest that she solve the problem by legal means, but this is not the case with him and me, The first time he did it, we had feelings
Xiaoqian snorted, "all the beaten women are paralyzing their hearts with the poisonous chicken soup of feeling. I admit that a lot of love and domestic violence exist at the same time, but do you want such love or not? As a doctor, you have mixed up your life like this. Don't you know where your problem comes from? "
"I'm not lucky"
"Bullshit, my apprentice's luck is not as good as you, but she has been able to deal with domestic violence cases excellently. She only said four words, and I decided that her clinical treatment of domestic violence cases is richer than you, and your incompetence after domestic violence also has a certain relationship with your experience of treatment failure, just because you lack these four words."
"Which four words?"
"Find yourself. Just these four words, Liu Xiaohua, what is your self-worth? Is holding a high degree to worship a famous teacher, but self expansion, find a man with excellent conditions, willing to do small? Stupid. "
"Me"
"If you only want to keep a relationship and compromise, what is the reason for your years of hard study? Your parents raised you for so many years, is it to let you wear a coat of urban elite muddle life? I don't mention your parents. I'll just say big boss. What do you do now is worthy of big boss? "
When it comes to big boss, Liu Xiaohua is not convinced.
"She always looked down on me."
"She despises you, she accepts you? She looks down on you, she will change the way to mention me, let me take care of you? If you don't have the relationship of big boss, do you think I'll stand by you and look like a loser and clean up the mess for you? Big boss's heart is not very good all the time. If you let her know this time, do you think she will be upset? You look all over the world, whose boss will take his apprentice like this? She doesn't want you to take on such a case. She doesn't look down on you. She wants you to go step by step. She doesn't want you to break down as soon as you get out of the mountain. Her apprentice, who has been working hard for several years, suddenly quits. Is she sad? "
This sentence is true. Liu Xiaohua thinks about the dignified expression of the big boss, and feels that she has really let her down this time. She sits on the bed with her face covered and feels like she is missing a piece.
People always have to suffer losses and setbacks before they can understand. Xiaoqian's words make her completely aware.
"I won't give you any specific suggestions. I'll tell you one thing. If you don't want to be a waste firewood all your life and disappoint your teachers and your family, you should stand up and find a way. You want to treat the patients and save your marriage, which is based on finding yourself. The problem you need to consider now is not divorce, nor how to avoid your work mistakes. You need to find your own position first. Only when you find yourself and don't rely on any feelings, can you find the right solution according to your heart. "
"What's my self, Chen Xiaoqian? What's my character in your eyes? Is it incompetent and useless?"
"Want to hear the truth?"
"Listen." It's already like this. Sister Hua thinks she can listen to more stimulation.
"You have a small mind but a big vanity. You want to run before you can walk steadily, but you don't know that in the profession of psychological counselors, only academic qualifications are not enough. Everyone, including me, has to go through a lot of clinical work and meet a good teacher. Only after time can you become an independent consultant, which is different from any profession."
A good counselor should not only have a high degree as the threshold, but also spend a lot of time in clinical practice. If Xiaoqian doesn't have so much clinical experience in her previous life, how can she have today's ability“ Yes, I'm such a failure. "Sister Hua is out of her mind. What Xiaoqian said is very objective, but why didn't she find out before?
"You're wrong. You're not a failure. You're just too eager to succeed. Maybe my existence has given you too much pressure, distorted your mentality and wanted to prove yourself too much. But where do you see my efforts and hard work?"
"Did you try? I see you, always relaxed, you can always easily get what we can't get with any effort. "
"When I worked hard, you didn't see it. I used to stay up all night for the sake of reciting those garrulous theories. When you were gossiping with people, I was still studying Freud and Brentano going to have an intimate relationship across time and space. When did you see me talking with a bunch of people? In the more than four years since I entered the University, I have never seen a TV play, and the number of times I have entered the cinema is very few. Are you sure my life is easy? "
People always like to focus on others and use their strengths to compare their weaknesses.
Xiaoqian's life is quite boring and even tasteless compared with that of ordinary college students.
Only when she is with her friends and Xiaoqiang can she relax a little. She is much better than before. She has worked harder than now in her previous life. The accumulation of her two lives has brought her success. How can outsiders see these efforts.
"Liu Xiaohua, I can't comment on your character. From a personal point of view, I don't like your character, and I won't make friends with people like you. But from an objective view of your major, I think your professional skills are good. You have the basic qualities that a psychological consultant should have. I recognize your efforts in your major."
Never thought that Chen Xiaoqian, who was holding Fengyoujing and spicy chrysanthemum, could say such a thing. Sister Hua was so shocked that she didn't even care to cry.
"You, how can you say that?" Shouldn't Chen Xiaoqian scold and ridicule herself?
"That's the difference between you and me. I'm a matter of fact person, and I'm destined to be a big boss in the future. At most, you are a person who can work for a boss with refined business."
Not to be envied is mediocrity, whether it is past life or this life, Xiaoqian's side has not broken rumors.
After she set up her own studio and had her own team, those people talked about her in private.
If she was angry one by one, one by one, she would have been angry to death.
The management team is not the one who goes along with me, but the one who goes against me. Instead, it is to maximize everyone's role, squeeze everyone's surplus value, and create the maximum profit. Xiaoqian has seen many people with the same character as sister Hua, and has already practiced it.
"Although the big boss has a little heart of Notre Dame, the people who can be selected by her are at least one in a hundred. If you don't have any flash on your body, she won't accept you. Although there are some small mistakes in this treatment, you should know what to do next."