Return of the Antagonistic Lady Boss

Chapter 772

"Because I think that man looks very normal, not like a drug addict, gambler will not dress so formally, and he doesn't smell of alcohol, and he doesn't drink too much, so what can make you say divorce at once must be domestic violence."

As a freshman, they should have a problem of principle. As for marriage, the problem of principle should be x-smoking, gambling and domestic violence.

"Yes, that's good. You can be more careful and confident. When she called, she specially answered her position and who she was with, which showed that her husband had a strong desire to control her, and her eyes were injured. The first thing after her husband came was to observe whether there were men around her. Although he was very polite, But it's hard to hide his eyes and manner. He's a man with aggressive personality, and the probability of domestic violence is 90. "

Freshman nodded, she actually thought so, but not as fast as Qian.

"20 is so different from 2000." The freshman said from the bottom of her heart that she really admired Xiaoqian's atmospheric and calm attitude towards patients, which she desperately wanted to practice and could not achieve. The freshman thought that doctors should have the same temperament as Xiaoqian, and patients would be very down-to-earth when they saw such doctors.

"Everyone starts from 20. You work hard, and you will be able to go up to a higher level. It's very suitable for you to deal with some of these cases at this stage, and gradually increase your experience. "

"But she said she would not come to me."

"When she is beaten next time, she will come to you. You will know how to treat her at that time. Remember, the principle of treating women who have been raped is not to ask why they don't divorce."

"Why do you say that?" After hearing this, a city manager asked curiously that they had been raped. Why didn't they ask why they didn't leave the slag man?

"There are many reasons for domestic violence, and the treatment methods are also different. More women don't leave not only for psychological reasons, but also for pathological reasons. If a woman who is subjected to domestic violence has battered spouse syndrome, if you don't treat her well, she still can't live independently, which is easy to lead to tragedy. You can go to the women's prison to have a look, How many of the female prisoners who killed their husbands are the cases I mentioned? You can also go to the men's prison to see the man who chopped his wife to death, which may also be the case. There are some women who have no instinct to survive independently. If you divorce her, she will feel that the sky is falling down, and it will be even worse if she is not cured. "

When the depression breaks out to a certain extent, either women chop men to death, or men who have domestic violence can't stand women's leaving and killing them, so it's not what professional psychologists should do to ask people why you don't divorce.

Xiaoqian's explanation makes Chengguan not understand very well, but it's very complicated.

"When you are not the client, you should never stand in the right angle and talk without backache. If you can't solve her trouble, don't ask her why she doesn't divorce. Only understand her situation and think of practical solutions for her, so that she can find herself again, or leave or look at the situation, This is the right way to deal with domestic violence. "

Domestic violence is a very common social phenomenon. There are many and complicated reasons. Every psychiatrist has a different plan to treat domestic violence counselors or those who have been consulted. However, no matter which plan it is, they don't criticize why people don't divorce.

Although in the eyes of many people, it's mean to be beaten and abused and not to divorce, that is, there must be something hateful about poor people. How can these people know that if they don't leave, they may be threatened by their husband to leave and kill you and your family, or they may be reluctant to leave their children and swallow their anger for their children, or they may have pathological reasons and have a morbid dependence on domestic violence men, as Xiao Qian said, Similar to Stockholm syndrome.

If the problem is not solved, even after divorce, they will still be chased and beaten. A large proportion of domestic violence women will still be beaten by their ex husband after divorce.

Even more, some women are not divorced because of domestic violence. It is precisely because of the gossip of bystanders. Nowadays, society is not very tolerant of divorced women. If they divorce, people around them will secretly say that even if the fault is not committed by women, divorce will still be remembered. Have you ever thought that your behavior has become a sharp sword to hurt others when you are gossiping from the perspective of onlookers?

Xiaoqian asked her freshman how to deal with this kind of consultant. She wrote it down carefully.

After saying the domestic violence, Qian always remembered something.

"Did you come into contact with the person I said when you were practicing in the central hospital?"

Xiaoqian is talking about ye Daqian, which is also her recent assignment for freshmen.

As they talked, they followed everyone to the rest room of the urban management team. They walked at the end of the day and spoke quietly. However, one of the elder students walked slowly on purpose and tried to listen to what they said.

"I came into contact with a patient yesterday. He has post-traumatic stress disorder and dreams of being bitten by a dog."

"Tell me what you think." Xiaoqian asked.

"It's not difficult to fall ill. What's difficult is the contradiction in my heart. On the one hand, I despise what he has done. On the other hand, I'm a doctor. He's my patient, so I can't ignore him. What should I do

In the past, everything was settled by President Qian. When I was a freshman, I wanted to find president Qian.

"Ye Daqian's case is left to you to handle. I won't give you any specific suggestions. Just remember that if you handle this case well, you can become a qualified psychologist in the future."

A psychiatrist should have medical ethics. No matter who the patient is, what he has done or whether he has committed a heinous crime, the patient must try his best to treat him in front of him. This is the idea of a freshman before he contacted Ye Daqian. But after contacting Ye Daqian, the freshman has sympathy and anger for this hateful villain. As a normal person with conscience, she deeply despises Ye Daqian's bullying behavior. But as a doctor, she can't help it.

Qian always gave her a super difficult option, freshman is very confused.

"I asked my second brother tactfully. Of course, I couldn't divulge the patient's information. I asked him, what would I do if a bad man came to see me?"

"What does the second brother say?"

"The second brother said that I should do it by myself."

"Poof." Xiaoqian smiles. It's really Yu's style.

"You don't help me. I have a headache." Freshman has never encountered such a tangled thing. The doctor's bounden duty and moral sense are intricately intertwined. Where should she go? This is a crucial step for the newcomer.

As Qian always expected, freshmen are numb now.

"In the future, you will be a consultant with an independent license. There are thousands of problems to be solved. You can't help thinking about this. Actually, the second brother has already told you the answer. We outsiders can't explain these things to you in detail. You can understand them yourself."

"The more Xiaoqian said, the more confused she was as a freshman. Did her second brother tell her the answer? What is it?