Chapter 573
Chapter 573
♂!
Previous life, this life, she owes to clear a sorry, failed his affectionate, let him wait for a lifetime, this life and for her illness racking brains.
If only she were a normal person, if only she could control her heart.
However, the disease is by no means self-control. Many people in the society have misunderstandings about the treatment of patients with mental diseases. They think that as long as the patients work hard, they can control it. If they can't control it, they are hypocritical, they will die, and they are selfish.
Many people don't understand premarital phobia, obsessive-compulsive disorder, or even depression.
So love him, why not marry? Affectation!
Why wash your hands constantly when you know it's not good? Poor self-control!
Life is so good, why always think of depression suicide? No promise!
Normal people use the so-called normal thinking to restrain patients. This misunderstanding makes patients feel more and more psychological pressure. Patients hate themselves more and more and don't accept themselves who are sick. Their illness is getting more and more serious.
Xiaoqian as a psychologist is not in favor of a normal person easily choose a person with psychological problems, because the choice means tolerance, can tolerate these two words, it is too easy to say, but can do too few people, life so long is a person with personality, who is willing to endure and compromise all his life, are not God, who can not have a temper?
Who is Yu Guangming?
He is a general, he is the best special forces instructor, he is all officers in the mind of the future immeasurable talent.
However, in order to accommodate a sick self, he would rather be a very second person.
Do all the things that others seem silly, even if the deeds are exposed, you have to bear all her anger. Don't tell her that it's treating her.
Perhaps others think that this is a stupid and two men, but Xiaoqian know that he can not be so two, he can be very smart.
But the price of his shrewdness is to hurt her, so he will never turn back on the road of two.
Yu Ming Ming of the previous life is very mature, even with a little abstinence. He is the most perfect husband for all the little girls.
But this life's in bright for her psychological problems again and again concession, became a man who is willing to do anything
Yu Mingming anxiously waits for her to get angry and is ready to continue to be beaten. But as soon as he opens his eyes and looks at Xiaoqian, his tears are dim and he is very anxious.
"Oh, my ancestors! Don't cry. It's all my fault. Except for breaking up, you can do whatever you want. Don't cry, OK? "
"I have something to say to you." She forced her tears back and made a big decision in her heart.
Yu Mingliang sees her suddenly so serious, in the heart suddenly rises the ominous premonition to come, sees the small Qian to have to open the mouth, he stretches out the finger to touch her lip.
"Don't say anything! If you dare to say goodbye or something, don't blame your brother for beating your little ass! Call until you are obedient! I'm wrong, but that doesn't mean to give me the death penalty directly! You have to give me a chance to reform through labor education! "
She once mentioned a break-up before, and Yu Mingming still can't forget it. Now he is afraid to hear the word break-up.
Xiaoqian shakes her head.
"I'm not breaking up. I mean, if you really want to get married, we'll try." The worst result is that she can't adapt well after marriage, and the nightmare is more serious. We'll find a way then.
She doesn't believe that she can't get married as a psychologist.
Now there is a departure between the conscious and the subconscious.
Consciousness is the thought and thinking that she can control. Xiaoqian clearly realizes that she loves Yu Guangming and wants to live with him to form a family. She wants to marry him.
But against her subconscious.
Because she had failed to raise her children, Xiaoqian's subconsciousness made her reject marriage. She was afraid that it would be the same as her previous life, and all this was beyond Xiaoqian's control.
The subconscious is such a magical existence. We can't feel its existence, but it influences our world outlook. If Xiaoqian is not a psychologist, it's better to find a psychologist of Professor Liu's level and ask her to hypnotize Xiaoqian, go directly into the subconscious and modify her memory.
Xiaoqian used this method to treat other patients before. Professor Liu didn't expect that Xiaoqian had memory of her previous life, so her fear of premarital life was more serious than she imagined. Even excluding the factor of rebirth, people with self-control like Xiaoqian can't use hypnotherapy. There is a kind of people who have good resistance to hypnosis. Both Xiaoqian and Yu Mingming belong to this kind of treatment.
So Xiaoqian wants to gamble once. She wants to try what she will do after her forced marriage with Yu Mingming, and use her consciousness to fight against subconsciousness.
Hearing that she agreed to get married, Yu Ming Ming was not overjoyed, but looked at her with deep eyes.
Xiaoqian shook her hand in front of his eyes twice. How could this guy behave differently from what she thought?
"Don't worry." Yu Mingming, who has been anxious to get married, is not dazzled by joy after hearing Xiaoqian's consent, but calmly makes a judgment.
"But you --"
"I'm in a hurry, and I'd like to marry you home, but since you're not ready, don't have any psychological pressure."
"I can try."
Yu Mingming was so embarrassed by her resolute expression that she could only use her chin to support her head and grind it intimately.
"Look at your face now. It's like going to the execution ground. We're very happy to get married. We shouldn't be so nervous."
Xiaoqian now this expression, know that she decided to marry him, do not know that who dug her family's ancestral grave.
"You all know that I'm a little pre marital phobia, so don't pick my expression is not in place, OK?" God knows how painful it is to fight your instinct.
Xiaoqian thought very vividly at this time, what is it like to have an insurmountable mental illness?
Not too elegant to say, like pee pants.
I know it's not good, but I can't control it. After I can't control it, I will feel self loathing, but I can't control it.
Self experience with mental illness is almost like this.
Yu Mingming knows that she must have made great determination to overcome her psychological fear at this time, so she will love her and don't want to force her.
"I'm not picking on you for not having the right expression. I hope my bride will marry me with a smile. Since you're not ready for the time being, I can wait. I've been waiting for three years, and it's not bad for this year. Don't think about anything. My mistake is my mistake. It has nothing to do with you." He probably guessed that Xiaoqian didn't get angry, but red eyes said to marry him, may be to know the real purpose of his coming, Yu Qingming don't want Xiaoqian pressure, also don't want her to continue to talk about phobia, directly change the topic.
"Qianbao, where did you get this towel, imported from the island?"
He took off the towel on his head and wanted to change the topic, but he didn't expect that a super key clue was turned out!
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