Chapter 551
Chapter 551
Probably yesterday's program involved a third party in the family. Today's calls are almost all about this.
The husband has a small three how to do.
What about the seven-year itch.
There is even a consultation husband snoring sleep want to divorce how to do.
Xiaoqian has long been familiar with these. The nighttalk program is to listen to all kinds of emotional problems. When people are in a good mood, they seldom think of asking others to listen. Only when they are upset, they think of making a phone call.
Most of the troubles are related to the family. She was numb to listen to them, but Yu Qingming, who accompanied her all the way, was thoughtful.
He has a little understanding of how Xiaomei's premarital phobia came about.
She grew up in a special family. Her subconscious of marriage was rejected because of the incompatibility between her father and mother.
Although Jia Xiufang had a good life after reorganizing her family, Xiaoqian didn't go home very often, and her impression of home was still in her childhood full of quarrels.
When I grow up, my major is clinical psychology. I come into contact with all kinds of people with problems and see unhealthy families.
It is also normal for her to have anxiety and fear about marriage. Yu Guangming admitted that he was a little uncomfortable when she first started to avoid marriage.
When he went to the bookstore to check the information, this discomfort turned into heartache, especially when he just went downstairs to buy water and heard the conversation between two night shift staff, his heartache became more obvious.
After recording the program, Xiaoqian came out and saw him leaning on the door to meditate. She reached out and shook her hand in front of him twice.
"What are you looking at?"
"Quit."
"What did you say?" Xiaoqian thinks she heard wrong.
The director pretended to collect the materials, but in fact his ears stood up.
"Resign. If you are embarrassed to talk to Professor Liu, I'll tell you."
He didn't want her to go on.
He just listen to love her, do these things let her subconscious to marriage uneasiness more intense.
"How do you remember to say that?"
Xiaoqian didn't know what stimulated him. When she came, she was still well. After recording a program, she was not allowed to do it?
"Go back." Yu Mingming doesn't want to say this in front of outsiders.
On the way back, Xiaoqian asked this topic again.
"Why do you want me to quit all of a sudden?"
"When I just went downstairs to buy water, I heard two people on the night shift chatting. They said," Yu Ming Ming's face darkened when he thought of those people's conversation.
"What did you say?"
"Before that, there was a psychological talk show host on the radio who committed suicide."
"I've heard about it. It's my last host. He's a very nice person. Unfortunately, he's still so young."
The suicide rate of the hosts of psychological talk shows is quite high. In fact, it's not just talk hosts. The suicide rate of psychiatrists is also high.
"Don't do it. It's not good to do something. You have to come out so late, delay your sleep, and listen to others take out emotional garbage every day." Yu Mingming didn't want to interfere in her work, but when she heard that someone had committed suicide, her heart was blocked.
He couldn't imagine what he would do if it was Xiaoqian.
"Don't you know what my major is? Clinical work is to be a listener of all kinds of emotional problems. The radio station can only be regarded as emotional garbage, and there are no psychological problems, so this is just the internship work that the teacher gave me. In the future, the psychological consultation that I will do is much more serious than this. You are not used to it. What do you do when I really work
After listening to her, it was more serious than that. In his clear mind, there were 26 ways to commit suicide. His face turned pale and he felt that he was going to suffocate.
Don't want to blurt out.
"Don't do it. I'll support you when I go home."
Xiaoqian deeply looked at him, "this problem will not be said again."
Yu Qingming knows that she has made a fool of herself by listening to her voice.
"I'm just worried about you. If you are exposed to negative information every day, which has even affected your own life, why do you do it?"
"Then go home, too. I'll support you. Can my career be more dangerous than you? If being a special forces soldier is a serious threat to your life, why do you do it? "
"It's not like that at all!" Yu Ming Ming is a little annoyed.
"It's no different. Special forces are also high-risk occupations, which is higher than the occupational risk coefficient of our psychiatrists. If it's true that many occupations belong to high-risk occupations, and they all feel that they are dangerous, what about these vacant positions? If you think it's dangerous, you want to put a glass bottle in my hood. Who will be a psychologist? "
"You don't want to change the concept. What I said to you is not the same. I hope you can be happy every day. It's not so stressful." In the face of her glib, Yu Ming Ming feels frustrated, but he still sticks to his own opinion.
"Where do you see that I'm not happy? I don't feel great pressure. I'm good at dealing with such consultation, and I won't bring my work emotions home, so you don't have to worry that I'll suffer from depression like my predecessors because of pressure. "
You are not depressed, but you are afraid of marriage! Yu Mingming can't say these words. He can only worry in his heart.
Home he went to the city, Xiaoqian thought he bought a set to go, also think just bought in the morning, how to buy at night?
Oh, he must know that tomorrow and the day after tomorrow is a weekend. How many times does he want to do it?
This idea makes her a little shy and have a little bit of expectation. Yu Xiaoqiang is not the kind of person who can only do one action. She can be called a variety of people. Every time she has a different surprise. For Xiaoqian, who is under great pressure now, it may be a good way to decompress.
As a result, she's looking forward to it in vain. After going back, Yu Mingming didn't take a mandarin duck bath with her as she did yesterday. After taking a bath, Xiao Qian lay down early. After a while, he didn't respond. He went to the living room to see him standing on the balcony and took out a small box from his pocket, but the box was not a condom but a cigarette.
I hardly see him smoking. What makes him so stressed?
Xiaoqian leans on the bedroom door and looks at him. Yu Mingliang holds the balcony railing and smokes silently. What she thinks is her.
Xiaoqian thought, or did not come forward to disturb him, she knows that every man has a specific stage will particularly like lonely. The biggest difference between men and women is that women's first reaction is to talk to their friends, but men prefer to go back to their spiritual world. The spiritual world is their secret garden. Men don't like to talk and don't need comfort. When they are in trouble, they need tobacco, wine and a space to be alone.
Xiaoqian gave up the idea of company and went back to the bedroom to lie down. Now she also needs a space to be alone.
Maybe what Qiuqiu once said is right. There is a strong T in Qianzong's soul. Sometimes her thinking is really close to men.
But this night, although he was lying beside her, the nightmare disappeared and came back. Xiaoqian woke up from the nightmare and sat up. Now Yu Guangming didn't sleep. She looked at her with deep eyes and didn't know how long it had been.
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