novelraw Chapter 472
Chapter 472
With a person who is exhausted and desperate, and whose mood is out of control, don't make any sense and can't listen.
Xiaoqian is now using the way of probation to express her understanding and release her psychological pressure.
People who have reached the limit want to listen to the recognition of others. At this time, they will follow her.
"It's really unfortunate about your family, but I sympathize with you most. It's not easy for you to live in a woman's home. Do you have any children at home? It's really hard for you to leave the children behind and run around for your brother's business."
"Isn't it? I died the year before last. My mother-in-law drove me out. I had to go back to my mother's home. Fortunately, my brother didn't dislike me and gave me a bite to eat. Now my brother is like this, can I just sit back and watch? Sister, my brother is not a bad man. He is not a "bad man."
The woman shed tears, the hand holding the knife was not so hard.
"Ah, it's all forced by fate. What's your brother doing?" Xiaoqian asked.
"I didn't hurt my internal organs, but they just asked us to accompany me. Where is the money in our family? My mother has been paralyzed for many years. Our brothers and sisters work during the day and serve my mother at night. They have money to see my mother. They have to sue us!"
What a hateful person, there must be something pitiful about him. Xiaoqian knows that the one who wants Liao Fugui to open the back door is either rich and powerful, or poor people.
Jia Xiufang was afraid. When she heard that, she felt sad and sobbed.
"Big sister, why do you think you are suffering? There are paralyzed mothers in my family. I know it's not easy to serve people!"
"You know?"
"Why don't you know? My mother has been paralyzed for so many years. My second brother and I have been waiting on each other in turn. But my second brother is not as filial as your brother. I'm the only one. Paralyzed patients don't know how to urinate. They have to turn over frequently to wait on them, or they will have bedsores. It's easy to listen to. It's killing to work. "
Jia Xiufang's words resonate with women. They all serve patients and know the hard work.
Xiaoqian busy timely intervention, "so the aunt, you stabilize the mood, we have something to say, you have any difficulties we can help you, we are all poor people are not easy, you say?"
The woman obviously shakes. Her hand with the knife shows signs of loosening. Her eyes look at Liao Fugui's direction, and she tears.
"It's the first time I've done such a thing. I can't help it."
"It's not someone's idea. Come on, tell me. I'll help you. I'm a psychologist. I have contacts and I'm able to reach out to you about your family. Don't be so nervous. It's OK. Relax."
Xiaoqian began to try to lead each other's thoughts.
Liao Fugui understood Xiaoqian's intention, and said with her thinking, "if one side has difficulties and all sides support, if there are difficulties, just say it."
"Help me, I'll kneel down for you!" The middle-aged woman put down her knife and knelt on the ground again, hiding her face and crying.
Xiaoqian reaches out her hand and drags her mother behind her to let Jia Xiufang stay away. She hugs the woman and pats her back placidly.
"It's going to be over. Believe me, everything will be OK. Don't be afraid."
"How can I fix it?" the woman was still crying helplessly. Xiaoqian gestured to her mother, "Mom, go back and make some soup. I think this aunt hasn't eaten for a long time."“ Then you -- "Jia Xiufang was worried about her daughter. Although she was poor, she just compared her daughter with a knife!
"I'm fine. I believe in my major."
After talking to her mother, Xiaoqian kicks the knife on the floor into the crack of the sofa without any trace. She can't see the murder weapon, which is helpful to women's mood.
"I'm Chen Xiaoqian, a psychologist. Would you like to tell me your troubles?"
Liao Fugui sighs at Xiaoqian sitting on the sofa, giving psychological treatment to this woman. The girl's professional skills are really admirable. From lifting the danger of hijacking to now professional psychological counseling, there is no redundant word.
What's more, Liao Fugui can see that what Xiaoqian is doing now, which is called cognitive therapy in psychological terms, changes the inherent cognition of the person being treated, so as to change her current irritability, depression and anxiety.
Cognitive therapy is very common in psychotherapy, which can be applied to a variety of indications, such as anorexia nervosa, alcohol dependence, social phobia, and even sexual dysfunction.
This very professional way of talking can also be used to guide negative emotions. Liao Fugui's own major is judicial psychiatry, and his counterpart is partial legal psychology. He has a set of expertise in identifying mental illness and mental illness, but his clinical experience is far from satisfactory.
So when he saw Xiaoqian's skillful and traceless cognitive therapy for women, and released women's emotions at the same time, Liao Fugui couldn't help praising Xiaoqian. He couldn't even put in a word. He watched Xiaoqian lead the women to wail and cry, and there was no anger at all. First, he expressed his recognition, and after gaining trust, he began seamless cognitive therapy. It was really strong.
Xiaoqian's treatment took less than 2 hours. After the woman cried, her mood was different from when she came.
"Thank you, Dr. Chen. I don't feel so bad in my heart. What happened just now has brought you trouble. Otherwise, you should call the police and let the public security take it away for me. I'm willing to accept further education."
"It's not a big deal. Don't bother the public security comrades. I'll leave you my mobile phone number. If you feel uncomfortable in the later stage, you can call me. We'll make an appointment to talk again. Auntie, there's no problem. I want to be open in everything."
Xiaoqian wrote her mobile phone number on the paper and gave it to the woman. The woman was very grateful and bowed to Xiaoqian again and again. Then she turned and left.
"I'd like to ask Dr. Chen where you are studying and where you are studying. Can you leave me a contact information? I'll meet some problems in my work in the future. Let's talk with each other."
Xiaoqian looked at Liao Fugui and said, "no, we are not the same people. I am a woman who knows money and stinks of copper. In the future, I will disturb the price of the psychological counseling market. I also bully the market and do everything. I am not a good person. If you are such a noble person, you must draw a clear line with me and be your master, I'm going to earn my grandfather Mao. Our well water doesn't violate the river water. Goodbye
Jia Xiufang came with the boiled soup, "where are the people?"
"Go back to your home, go back to your mother, go back!" Xiaoqian leads Jia Xiufang home. Liao Fugui looks at her back and is puzzled.
How can anyone evaluate themselves so maliciously?
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