novelraw Chapter 956: Find the cause and solve the current result
Chapter 956: Find the cause and solve the current result
Chapter 956 Find the cause to solve the current result
"Mom, you go to the hotel first, I have something to do and drive by myself in a while." After yesterday's incident, Xiaoqian didn't want to dodge Ball Ball anymore.
"Then you try not to miss the opening of the seat--or, let Liumei accompany you?" Xiaoqian's mother knew that Liumei had practiced, and if something happened, she could kick someone down.
Xiaoqian shook her head, "No need."
The ball daddy at this time may be due to a lame leg. Seeing that he didn't have the style of huddling before and after his first appearance, he was also very haggard.
Watching Xiaoqian's family come out, Dad Qiuqiu's lips moved.
He can remember how Xiao Qian’s mother fooled him that day. He stood upstairs and talked to the aunt who was suspected of dementia for so long, until the heatstroke fainted!
This big girl is also embarrassing...
"Dr. Chen, I came to see you specially! Can I have a chat?" Dad Qiuqiu smiled at Xiao Qian.
"Find a place. I will get married tomorrow. Today is my natal family setting the table, so I can give you half an hour."
Hearing that Xiaoqian was about to get married and set the table, Dad Ball was surprised at first, and then he wanted to get his wallet out of the box.
"Dr. Chen, look at this. I don’t know if I can find you. I didn’t even bring anything today, and I don’t know it was the day when you were overjoyed. I--"
Xiaoqian reached out her hand to stop.
"Mr. Xiao, if you take the money, we don't have to talk about it."
Qiuqiu always said that his father had no education and was a nouveau riche, and he was indeed a nouveau riche. He paid for it when he came up, and he had no technical content.
Qiuqiu Dad smiled awkwardly, and put his wallet back in a jealousy.
Xiaoqian chose a cafe not too far from home, and drove the ball with Dad.
"Let's talk, what can I do?" Xiaoqian ordered a glass of ice water and asked him.
In fact, both of them understood in their hearts that Dad Qiuqiu must have come to her because of Qiuqiu. It was just a symbolic cutscene.
Dad Ball Ball rubbed his hands and sighed.
"I want to ask, is there any treatment for my daughter's condition? I know you are one of the best psychologists in China. You must have a way, right?"
At first, he only thought that Xiaoqian was a leading sister, who was a good friend with Qiuqiu, and she wore tinted glasses to see her.
When Qiuqiu said that Xiaoqian was a famous psychiatrist in the upper class in China, Qiuqiu's father didn't believe it at all and thought it was bragging.
But he did find out that there is a very good psychiatrist in Q City, and he can only be contacted through layers of relationships.
When he finally found out that the doctor was Xiaoqian through various relationships, this shock was really irritating. It is said that he shouldn’t have any contact with juniors who have had integrity, but for the sake of the ball. The ball, he can only spare this face.
When Dad Qiuqiu said the word daughter, Xiaoqian cocked the corners of her mouth mockingly.
"Do you have a daughter? When did you have one?"
"Isn't it just the ball? You are good friends."
"No, you don’t have a daughter. Your daughter was ‘killed’ by your own hands. You only have one ball now. It’s hard to say whether he recognizes you or not."
Xiaoqian said to kill with her own hands. These four words are particularly light, but falling in the ears of Dad Qiuqiu is like a heavy hammer.
He covered his face in pain, "I didn't expect...she would become like this!"
"From a medical point of view, gender identity disorder is related to three conditions: physiological factors, congenital factors, and acquired education. I don't know whether there is congenital hormonal imbalance in the genes of the ball, but I can definitely tell You, his current situation is directly related to his upbringing the day after tomorrow, and wasn't it you who killed that girl?"
"I didn't want her like this..." Dad Qiuqiu expressed pain. Who could have expected that the carelessness at the time would turn into an irretrievable situation?
"You didn't say it straight, but when you brought him into this world, you didn't give him the fatherly love he should have. Instead, you beat him and scolded him, constantly instilling girl's useless thoughts. I came into contact with many childhood problems. Patients with psychological problems usually have their parents divorced around the age of 5 or their father has been away for a long time. The role of the father in the process of parenting is very important, but why do you treat him like that?"
Daddy Qiuqiu was crying when Xiaoqian asked.
He was also under great pressure at the beginning. Life was unsatisfactory, and he was suppressed outside. His wife left him again, leaving only a small oil bottle ball. She looked like a boy when she was a child, but she was a girl.
Dad Qiuqiu’s hometown attaches great importance to heirs. Outsiders sometimes make jokes about not having a son. Those who have a son laugh and laugh, but those who don’t have a son feel that their self-esteem is seriously frustrated. Catharsis with immature children.
Who ever thought that the consequences would be so serious.
Xiaoqian ignored the pain of Dad Qiuqiu, but turned to look at an ornamental plant planted in the coffee shop. She didn't know the specific name of the plant, she just looked at the luxuriant branches and scattered scattered ones. The little red fruit was very pleasing. She reached out and picked a little fruit and put it in her hand to play with.
"Outsiders think our psychiatrist is very divine. No matter if we are found by any psychological problem, we can analyze this person’s childhood through a few test scales. It’s amazing, isn’t it? Many patients think they have a problem and come to us. , We can even clearly infer his childhood family situation, do you know why this is?"
Dad Qiuqiu looked at her helplessly and shook his head.
Xiao Qian pushed the red fruit towards him.
"A large proportion of the psychological problems of adults are related to childhood experiences. Let me give you an example. Adults who have problems are the fruits you see. Suppose those mental problems caused by congenital genetic problems. Family disease is the congenital malaise of the seed and the inability to bear good fruit. Can you understand this?"
This analogy is very vivid, Qiqiu Dad nodded immediately, Xiaoqian continued.
"The seeds with normal genes will definitely produce fruits? No, in the process of growth, there is still a certain probability that they will encounter problems, such as moisture, temperature, sunshine, etc., a good seedling, in your hand The inside has changed abnormally. Do you blame Miao for not working hard, or blame the gardener taking care of Miao for being careless?"
The most failing sentence of being a parent is that your child has a problem.
Because most of the problematic children are caused by the parents alone.
Xiaoqian's words shocked Dad Qiuqiu, his face was pale, his breathing was rapid, and he hurriedly took out a bottle of medicine from his pocket and stuffed it into his mouth.
"According to my personality, I should ignore you, because the result you see today is the cause you planted in the first place. From a psychological point of view, in addition to the problems caused by congenital genes, any psychological abnormality can find cause and effect. Contact, our duty is to find the cause and solve the current effect."
Thank Qiran MM for 500 coins, thank you for smiling. Said regret, Sha Xuelian's reward~
(End of this chapter)