novelraw Chapter 954: See your own problems in others
Chapter 954: See your own problems in others
Chapter 954 Seeing my own problems in others
Nowadays, there are more and more people living in buildings. This kind of pure feeling is less. These old men must also really care about Minglang. Otherwise, how could it be possible that the more Minglang father came to the door to teach him?
Although it was an oolong, Xiaoqian still thinks that such a relationship is worth maintaining.
"That's true, if we have children in the future, we must not be wrong in thinking and morality. Children who grow up in such an environment will definitely not be wrong in the Three Views."
Xiaoqiang has the most say in this matter. The child walks into the yard, meets an elder casually, pulls it over, and chats for a long time. From the war of resistance to patriotism, it doesn’t work if you don’t want to listen. When you go to school, you will have a history class. Bring your own advantages.
"In fact, sometimes, I think it would be better if relatives can keep the same distance as neighbors."
Xiaoqian sighed, as soon as Xiaoqiang heard that there was something in her words, could it be that the daughter-in-law's sudden depression tonight is related to her family?
"Why do you ask that?"
"I saw the relationship between Qiqiu Dad and Qiuqiu today, and I couldn't help but think of me and my brother."
"This...Is it impossible to hit the eight poles?" Is this little thing worthy of his wife's attention?
"What do you have in common, don't you hate the ball? In fact, he is also very pitiful. He wants to arrange a future for his children, but he doesn't know that what he arranges is not what the ball wants. We are the ball My friends, from our point of view, this kind of mass interference in the future of others is very annoying."
Isn’t this the embodiment of special affection in a special environment?
Parents are accustomed to the patriarchy, from going to school to the wedding room and even coaxing their children to coax their children.
Yu Minglang nodded and motioned for her to continue.
"I'm also reflecting on the fact that I have arranged for Dalong's future, whether it is right or wrong. He is young and has never seen the market, and his thinking is relatively simple. I even tricked him to pave the way for the future. , Really right?"
Human being a mirror is a hurdle that top psychiatrists can't get around. They will always find their own problems in other people's problems.
It turned out to be like this! Xiaoqiang finally understood why his daughter-in-law was doing well during the day. After seeing Qiuqiu's father, she suddenly lost emotions. It was because of her brother who had been making trouble for a long time.
"There is a saying that children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, but you say that children and grandchildren like Dalong develop according to his simple brain circuit. What blessing will he have?"
Xiaoqian is really not an alarmist younger brother who belittles her.
You can remember what happened in the previous life. If the child does not restrict his development, he will easily go wrong, but he is not a bad child in essence.
"Don't think too complicated about the problem. The situation in your family is different from that of the Qiuqiu family." Xiaoqiang is on Xiaoqian's side. He doesn't think his wife is wrong in handling the problem.
"In a sense, the ball dad also thinks about the ball. Although his way is silly to us, his original intention is for the ball. I think I am also for the sake of my brother. Is it the same?"
This Waner Xiaoqian can't stop coming.
Following the laissez-faire mindset, she shouldn’t interfere with Dalong’s affairs, but she can’t see him as in the previous life, with love on one side and reason on the other side. Standing at the crossroads of contradictions, she always feels full of emotion in her heart.
"That's different. You and Qiuqiu Dad are fundamentally different. First, his method can only get a wrong result in the end, but you can definitely teach a good brother. Second, Qiuqiu From beginning to end, he never asked his father to help him decide the future, and Dalong has always relied on you. He proactively asks you for help. He trusts you and will discuss everything with you. There is a passive and active relationship. Third, Dalong’s subconsciousness is to accept your sister’s arrangement, while Qiuqiu’s subconsciousness is to repel his father, so the two are not comparable."
Xueba is good at grasping the key points. When he said that, Xiaoqian seemed a lot more comfortable.
In fact, everyone understands the truth, but if someone can mention her, it will feel different. Xiaoqian stands tall and there are only a handful of people who can mention her. Everyone is looking to her and relying on her, and even treating her as a There is a god-like existence, but there is such an equal person next to her, who can tell the truth in one word when she is confused.
"My biggest worry is that we have tried our best and still haven’t educate him well. If he gets crooked--"
The shadow of her previous life has been lingering in Xiaoqian's heart. She has seen her younger brother turned into a dude, and is always afraid of not being able to educate him.
"He is crooked, you beat me up."
"Why am I beating you?" She looked at him strangely. In his heart, is she such a violent person?
"I have a responsibility for this. My wife is the decision maker of the action, and I am the executor. You sent Dalong this decision is brave, correct, and absolutely no problem. If the education is not good, then it is My executor’s question, my daughter-in-law is always right."
"It's just you." Xiaoqian couldn't get around for so long, so he easily persuaded him.
The other man was anxious to hide behind when something happened, but the silly boy rushed up and fell into President Qian’s eyes. The more he looked, the more he felt that he was particularly responsible.
"Seriously, the place where Dalong is about to enter, can you really take him well?"
Xiaoqian is still not at ease, she always feels that her brother is a little incorrigible.
Since she came back, she has always paid attention to his education, and her studies are all done by the wealthy and wealthy. She and the wealthy and wealthy together made three study exams. She always wants to take shortcuts if she doesn't make progress in life. The dignified female boss says she doesn't. Hit, that is impossible.
Don’t say it’s just a younger brother, it’s just his own child. It’s not a good idea to plan your life for others. It’s not good for people who turn back to be cultivated. They are like Dad Qiuqiu who are not humans inside and out. This is too much for people to enjoy. Fire.
"It's just to give Dalong a big environment. The same rice raises hundreds of people. No matter how good the environment is, there can be no one hundred percent. But objectively looking at Dalong, he is not an unforgivable child by nature. In his direction, he himself knows how to fight, but in fact, you shouldn't always look at the big dragon subjectively."
Xiaoqiang noticed that Xiaoqian’s attitude towards her younger brother was particularly interesting. The precise profile was love and hate, and a little bit of hatred for iron and steel. Xiaoqian saw that anyone could analyze it objectively, which meant that her brother thought extremely badly.
Where did Xiaoqiang know that Xiaoqian's subjective awareness of Dalong came from the shadow of her previous life. She always couldn't forget how the troublemaker pitted her for a lifetime, and how it dragged her back.
But she can't forget how the silly little brother, her brother, defended herself and her mother after she came back. When these two feelings are intertwined, the emotions become complicated.
"It's okay, I'm here, don't think about anything." He lowered his head to kiss her, Xiao Qian avoided.
"Are you friends now? Keep your distance!"
Yo, still want to play with him?
Sorry that the update is late today. I can’t turn on the computer because of the wind. I struggled all morning. I apologize for the inconvenience caused to you in reading~
(End of this chapter)