Chapter 872: Precocious children make heartache
Chapter 872: Precocious children make heartache
Chapter 872 Precocious children make heartache
Panpan didn’t dare to tell his father and mother about these things. Her mother is a very frugal woman. Panpan herself read foreign magazines and studied it. This stuff is not cheap. He always thought it might be difficult at home because her mother always Calculating when to discount.
"It's boring for kids to do this. Uncle buys you the latest psp, it's fun."
Psp hasn't been long since, Xiaoqiang has already liked it, and he will play for a while when nothing happens. Xiaoqian bought him all new models from abroad.
"No, that's something immature people can play."
Pants!
Yu Minglang pressed his heart, feeling that his heart was pounded by Panpan! Disgusted by a kid who is still in kindergarten!
Xiao Qian actually cooperated, "Yes, he is immature."
Pants!
I was disgusted by my own wife again!
"What Panpan likes, grandma will give you--" Before Yu mother finished speaking, she felt a fierce stare from Xiaoqian. This great doctor's style rushed towards her face, and Yu mother immediately shut up with interest. , With a drink.
"Panpan, my aunt promises you that if your mother really wants to bring you a little brother or little sister, the day he is born will be the moment when you receive a full set of gifts."
"The full set... Isn't it expensive?"
Xiaoqian twitched the corners of her mouth to see if she was frugal and caused the child to launch.
"My aunt buys it. My aunt is a local tyrant who is especially rich. I promise to buy you a full set from abroad."
"No, no merit will not be rewarded. Although my family is poor, but my son is not too poor." Panpan said solemnly.
It’s so rare for Yu mother. Oh, this child, he speaks like a little adult!
"Then let your dad buy it-my child, your family is not poor, really."
Yu's second salary has been raised again in the past two years, and his income is definitely not low, but his freshman year is low-key and low-key, and the children he makes think that his family is very poor.
For a kindergarten child, Panpan is definitely superior in IQ, but children are children after all, and always have an innate desire for things they like. When Xiaoqian says that they can buy them, their eyes are definitely Shiny.
"Qianbao, are you sure you want to buy as he said? For such a big child, can you cut materials?" Xiaoqiang swears that he didn't pour cold water because he was ridiculed by children and his wife. He just told the truth. !
Hearing the words, Panpan Liang’s eyes darkened again, Xiaoqian took the smile she used to treat people, but her hand caught Yu Minglang under the table to catch the trace.
You talk nonsense the most!
"At that time, your father will do it with you, and he will do it with you if you can't complete it!"
Sure enough, Panpan immediately lifted his spirits, "Really?"
"Of course, my little aunt is known as President Qian in the society. Does Qian always deceive people?"
Xiaoqiang is funny, his wife is really domineering, dare to say a nickname in front of her mother-in-law?
"Yes, what your little aunt said is right, you see, little aunt won such an important championship today, the championship will not deceive." Yu Mu even cooperated with Xiaoqian's words.
"But... after Dad has younger siblings, will he have no time to accompany me?"
Sure enough!
Yu's mother felt sore, this child is too precocious, and it makes people feel distressed.
Xiaoqian remained calm, still smiling.
"My aunt will not deceive. I admit that if there is a baby, the mother may be a little bit busy to take care of the baby. The baby is stupid not to eat or pee, and the mother may take care of him a little bit more. But my father will spend more time with you, and my mother won't care about you because of the baby."
At this time, Xiaoqian is already quietly giving her children psychological counseling.
"But the aunt in our hospital said that if my mother has a little brother, I don't want me."
Yu's face changed when she heard the child say this.
Who talks so much and says this in front of the child? !
Children’s hearts are really fragile.
Some adults make jokes casually, which may not be malicious in themselves, but they can cause anxiety to children.
Wait until your mother has younger siblings, if you are not obedient, you will not be wanted.
You continue to be picky eaters, your mother will give you to your grandma if you have a little brother!
In this case, you will always hear it intentionally or unintentionally.
Not only the smart Panpan, even ordinary children, even if they are only two or three years old, and are not so sensible, if there are such shameless relatives or neighbors making jokes, the children will remember it.
Xiaoqian hates this kind of **** who makes jokes in no light or heavy.
If these words dare to speak in front of her, she will slap them over.
Panpan, no matter how smart and sensible, he is just a child, and he also has the mentality of a child. Those who say these words should be beaten up.
Panpan has been raised by his freshman year since he was a ignorant baby. Although the whole family thought the child was still young and did not understand the concept of a real mother and a stepmother, he actually understood.
Many people only start to remember things at the age of 5 or 6. The human brain is developing before the age of 3. It is basically impossible to remember the memory before the age of 3, but there are also some vague memories. For Panpan, that vague memory It was a woman who always beat him fiercely. He didn't have sunshine in his life until his freshman year, but he had also heard people say that freshman was not his mother. Adults thought he didn't understand, but he did.
The self-righteous "jokes" of the adults have given the children the most unwilling psychological shadow.
If it weren’t for Xiaoqian’s first thought of this, she couldn’t find Panpan’s heart in her freshman year. It’s not that she doesn’t care about her children, but that she has too little qualifications and does not have such rich clinical experience as Xiaoqian. Conditional reflexes piled up from one clinical case after another.
After the opening of the second child in the previous life, there are not a few children whose parents want the second child to have psychological problems. The extreme Dabao will verbally hurt others, and even make aggressive behaviors to hurt himself or the second child. More often, it is the older child. I didn't say anything in my heart, pretending to be sensible, but the seeds of the shadow in my heart were already buried in my heart.
"Your mother will not want you just because you have a baby. My aunt promises you that in the future, your parents will spend as much time with you as you do now. If your mother spends less time with you, your father will spend more time together. Similarly, my aunt will never lie to you, you can get gifts when the baby comes, and the adults will do what they say!"
In fact, this is a psychological suggestion, and it is also the key to counseling. Later, because the child really got a gift, I was impressed by this suggestion.
Panpan looked at her seriously, as if thinking about the credibility of Xiaoqian's words.
Xiaoqian added, "Have you ever heard of Xiangyouxinsheng? Tell you those who have younger brothers and sisters who don't like you, are there any young ladies who are pretty?"
"No!"
"Beautiful people are reasonable, listen to me!"
Xiaoqiang blinked. It was his daughter-in-law who would fool the child. Panpan immediately believed it.
"However, if you want to say that your life will not change at all, it is not right..." Xiaoqian deliberately sold it, mobilizing Panpan's attention, and then continued.
(End of this chapter)
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