novelraw Chapter 1443: It's important to plan ahead
Chapter 1443: It's important to plan ahead
Chapter 1443 Precaution is very important
After a night of thinking, Xiaoqian finally organized her language. Since Xiaoqiang asked her to tell her directly, she would be welcome.
"Guo Jing in the Legend of the Condor Heroes is a controversial person. Some people think that the great man has jumped out of the national category and chose common people. Others think that he was ungrateful and adopted him in Mongolia. He finally helped Song fight Mongolia and kill many Mongolians. Different standpoints have different results when looking at the problem. Another example is the story of the farmer and the snake, which is a metaphor for ungratefulness. Apart from the implication, we will only analyze it from a scientific point of view. The first reaction is to look for food. Biting is only instinct. Why did both of them react instinctively to cause tragedy?"
As a result, the instinctive reaction of snakes is still being cast aside by humans. From the perspective of humans, snakes are very responsive. What about snakes’ perspective? Psychology studies human instincts. Looking beyond moral constraints to look at instincts, many of the instincts brought by the evolutionary process are contrary to ethics.
"Isn't the second brother's Panpan very good?" Yu Minglang understands her innuendo.
This sentence made Xiaoqian's heart tremble, and her instinct was right.
Xiaoqiang may not have thought of adopting that far, but he blurted out and used Panpan as a metaphor, which proved that he still had the idea of adopting Chaha subconsciously.
International adoption is indeed not an easy task, but Yu's contacts are there. If Yu Minglang really has this heart, it will not be impossible to do it. Xiaoqian is afraid that things will be passive to herself before saying it in advance.
Xiaoqian and Yu Minglang did not evade Xiaowei when they discussed this matter. After all, this is just an unweaned doll. Even if she has always been very smart, Xiaoqian and his wife did not think that this kind of conversation with a baby separated by a layer of paper. Can understand, so no one saw Xiao Wei's eyes widened after hearing Panpan's name.
"Panpan’s situation is different. First of all, Panpan’s IQ is very high and understandable earlier. Second, Panpan was raised by his second brother since he was a child. What you hear and see are the values of your old home, and there is another most important reason. , Panpan is good for freshman pro-autonomy, and the emotional fetters between mother and child are by no means understandable."
After Xiaoqian finished speaking, she observed Yu Minglang's expression, she was watching his reaction, if he blurted out you can give Chahazhi, then she would be disappointed in this man.
Fortunately, Minglang didn't say that, but just signaled Xiaoqian to continue saying that this is a detailed manifestation of respecting Xiaoqian and putting Xiaoqian's feelings in the first place.
Xiao Qian continued with satisfaction.
"Life is like a game in which you constantly touch the switch to get different endings. You touch this switch and you get a series of chain reactions behind. If you don't touch it, you may not be able to trigger the result. Let's talk about Guo Jing. Son, if the Mongolian did not adopt Guo Jing, would there still be such a controversial view? If the farmer did not disturb the hibernating snake, would he still be bitten? In order to emphasize the dramatic conflict, the novel will make extreme treatments. Reality We obviously have a better way to deal with it, why have to become dramatic?"
From a human point of view, the snake seems to be frozen. To warm the snake with human compassion is an act of “take it for granted”. I think this is good for you. Why don’t you appreciate the feeling of the snake? Okay!
People are hibernating well. You have to wake up in their arms, be bitten as food, and be made up as a fable to warn future generations. Is this bullying the snake, can’t speak and can’t redress justice? Who told you to treat the snake like this?
Similarly, this question can also be used between Minglang and Chaha. If Yu Minglang insists on adopting Chaha with his compassion, he himself is busy with work and the child is finally brought by Mr. Qian. Mr. Qian has a lot of work and has to take care of his daughter. The slightest negligence will be pointed out by Qianfu. The world has no shortage of moral **** who stand and talk. It is certainly not a good experience for Chaha himself to be adopted by the man who killed his father.
Major issues must not be like a peasant slap on the thigh, "I want to do it for you", but to consider the overall situation from an all-round perspective.
"I will find him an adoptive parent who loves him and takes care of him. I will not adopt it by myself."
Stupid kindness is more terrible than deliberate evil. Even if this reason is clear, he will understand everything if Xiaoqian clicks on it.
When he personally got his promise of no adoption, Xiao Qian was relieved. Xiaoqiang is a one-of-a-kind person, and he dared to promise that he would do it.
Xiaoqian blinked, "I didn't say anything, you said it yourself!"
Holy Father is resuscitated, and this enlightenment comes up while sitting on a rocket.
"What else do you need to say, little clever ghost." Yu Minglang nodded Xiaoqian's head and said in a petting voice.
"I will arrange for someone to deal with Miao Lun's affairs. We will donate her medical expenses in the name of the International Aid Fund. This will not cause too much psychological pressure and burden on their mother and child, and we will not do it later. Doubt the source of this expense."
Xiaoqian thought very comprehensively. Yu Minglang was very heart-warming after hearing it, and kissed her with emotion.
"There is a beauty at home, like a treasure."
Xiao Qian pushed him a bit, "You come here less, do you dislike me for being old!"
The original saying is that having an old family is like a treasure.
"I'll wash, and take your wife to play with you. Finally, I have a few days off. Let's not waste it."
Yu Minglang walked to the bathroom vigorously, Xiaoqian smiled slightly at his back and picked up her daughter to teach.
"Dangduan keeps reacting to the chaos. Being a man, especially a woman, can't just'take it for granted'. You must learn to deal with problems rationally. In this case, if your mother is crying and wiping tears like those shrews, saying that your dad doesn't love me, do things If you don’t think about the problem from my perspective, this matter will never end when you quarrel. In fact, it’s just a few words. My Xiaowei has to learn to think rationally when he grows up, you know?"
If Xiaoqian does not have such a rainy day, and Yu Minglang wants to adopt, what is the thinking of normal people?
I’m so tired from work every day, so tired with children, you’re busy with work and family affairs all the year round. Have you considered my feelings? You just don’t love me, you are selfish, thinking about how I gave Barabara for you in the first place. , You are right now to me Barabara, you just don’t love me Barabara...
Standard marital quarrel sublimation mode, this template can be applied to more than 50% of marital quarrels.
How do couples who love each other get apart? It’s just that too many assumptions have been added to the failed communication. Qian will never do that. She is also subtly taking her daughter with her own behavior. As for whether Xiaowei will grow up to be as knowledgeable and skilled as her mother. Woman, then only let time give the answer.
Xiaoqian made a precautionary response for her family here, while Qi Yuxuan, who was far away in China, frowned with the results of the Miaolun survey he had obtained. She thought it was a simple petition for help, but she didn’t think there were any more behind this. .
It’s time to take precautions for the girls. You can’t wait for the rain to come, then it will be too late.
(End of this chapter)