novelraw Chapter 1055: What is the psychological problem of affair sequelae
Chapter 1055: What is the psychological problem of affair sequelae
Chapter 1055 What is the psychological problem of affair sequelae
When the eldest brother threw the card, he was walking while calling, and he went out without waiting for Feng Manman to say anything else.
Xiaoqian just gave the eldest brother a head, and the rest was done by the elder brother himself, just enough Feng Manman believed that he would not let Feng Manman take advantage of a dime, in the original words of the elder brother.
It feels too much to give her a dime.
Xiaoqian is accompany her sister-in-law to do a neck and shoulder massage in the hall, as if nothing happened.
The press was almost the same, Xiaoqian waved to let the technician go out, the sister-in-law lay on the bed full of petals, half-closed her eyes, she could not see any emotional changes, even her eyebrows were stretched.
"Let me tell you a joke, Sister-in-law, do you know that in the future, many beauticians will graduate from my major. After graduation, if they can't find a suitable job, they will come to work in a beauty salon and earn a lot of money in a month. "
"Oh?" The sister-in-law opened her eyes.
"Is it weird? In fact, this is in line with social needs. Most of the women who can come to this place are economically stable and high-income women. In fact, they need to find someone to talk about the pressure in their hearts. If you understand psychology, the effect of communication will be better."
The fees of high-end female clubs are not low, and the quality of the employees varies greatly.
"What can I say to the beautician?" The sister-in-law didn't quite understand.
She does regular maintenance, but she rarely talks about herself.
"High-income women are not willing to talk about the company when they are out of the work unit. They want to find a place to talk about the short stories of their parents, spit out the mother-in-law, and talk about their children or something."
"In that case, I've been too comfortable." Sister-in-law said sadly.
Compared with the average lady, her life is very good.
Parent-in-law treats her very well, she herself is busy with work, and her parents are rarely involved. The two sons are excellent, so she has nothing to worry about, and there is no chance for her family to come to such a place to complain.
Born in sorrow and dying in well-being, it was because the life went so smoothly that the woman from Feng Manman took advantage of the vacancy to enter.
"There is nothing bad about ease. How many people want this ease can't get it."
Sister-in-law closed her eyes again. She pretended not to understand the deep meaning of Xiao Qian's words, but moved her fingers to try to change the subject.
"I don't know why, why do I feel that my hands are a little numb today, and I will have to let the technician press it for a while."
Xiao Qian squinted her eyes, has her hand numbness already appeared?
It's more serious than she expected...
This is also the purpose of her coming out with her sister-in-law this time, she wants to be a psychological counseling for her sister-in-law.
At this moment, President Qian’s cell phone rang.
"Narcissus, what's the matter? Oh, someone asks me for advice? What does she want to ask?"
Sister-in-law heard Xiaoqian talking on the phone. It was a professional matter. She got up and prepared to go out for a cup of coffee to leave room for Xiaoqian.
But Xiaoqian's next sentence succeeded in keeping her sister-in-law.
"Aftermath of an affair?"
When Xiaoqian said, she also glanced at her sister-in-law.
Sister-in-law also stopped.
At this node, such topics are particularly sensitive.
"Oh, after something happened, the consultant began to suspect that her husband was insecure even if there was no evidence of derailment? You mean she made several different underwear and checks whether her husband is changing clothes outside every day? "
Xiaoqian said one item, just look at her sister-in-law.
The narcissus on the other side of the phone asked in confusion, "Qian'er, what happened to you today, why do you repeat a sentence when I say it?"
makes it seem as if it is deliberately told to others, usually in such a situation Narcissus only needs to say it once, Xiaoqian will know it with a sigh, and then she chooses not to answer.
"Speaking of affair sequelae, this is a lack of trust caused by emotional insecurity, which may bring emotions such as panic and anxiety. In the later stage, it may even suffer from insomnia, heart palpitations, and numbness of the limbs, and some patients may also have flushing. Wait for the physiological reaction, the harm caused by the affair is not only emotional, but also a lack of security."
"Who are you pitting? Let's talk, I will listen to you, ask Dr. Chen to start your performance!" Narcissus seemed to understand something, so she simply handed the time to Xiaoqian and listened patiently.
"To repair the scars caused by the affair and to fill in the sense of security. Many people are comforting themselves and saying that if they want to start something, there is nothing wrong with it. Women will either endure or kill them. In fact, the first thing that thinks of problems should be our professional doctors. You can talk to a psychiatrist for even the trivial matters at work. Why do you have to tolerate important matters of marriage?"
"Well, you have a big chest, and everything you say is right." Narcissus can only cooperate with Xiao Qian.
"Mindfulness reduction therapy to improve emotions can help manage emotions. When you encounter problems that you can't overcome, ask professionals to help, because many people don't pay attention to control when the pain first occurs. In the later stage, it becomes If you think of asking for help if you have psychological problems, it will be more troublesome to deal with."
"Well, Dr. Chen Da, I have taken you. I can cheat people through the phone. Should I ask you for the props? You treat me as a prop for people to treat diseases, right?"
"If you want any money, tell your patient, I took it in this case, and the price is still the same."
Xiaoqian hung up the phone and smiled at her sister-in-law, "Do you want to ask me to charge?"
The conversation just now made my sister-in-law understand something.
Sister-in-law raised her hand that had always felt numb, "This, is it a psychological problem?"
She felt numb in her hands and wanted to find a technician for massage again.
Xiaoqian nodded. She followed up because she was afraid that her sister-in-law would react to this incident. The affair was a guillotine in the marriage. The eldest brother’s "affair" was only from Feng Manman's conspiracy and it was considered unsuccessful.
The eldest brother kept the bottom line of marriage, but the whole thing caused a certain blow to the sister-in-law. She was so domineering on the face, but she was bound to be shocked in her heart. This is a normal reaction.
The sudden appearance of hand numbness is a physical reaction brought about by psychological injury.
For a woman, changing a job at the age of 30 and divorcing at the age of 40 is a major turning point in her life. Sister-in-law will certainly not divorce, but this incident makes her feel a sense of crisis.
The kind of psychological problem that Xiaoqian designed to make Feng Manman suffer from is called AIDS. The state of the sister-in-law at this time, Xiaoqian thinks can already be called aphobia.
Because I care too much, I am afraid of losing. Feng Manman is afraid of losing his life and health, and his wife is afraid of losing her marriage and family.
Man is a man, not a god.
"Xiaoqian, am I considered hypocritical like this? There is nothing, I always have so much, but because of this uncertainty, I feel so sad. Should I be stronger?"
Xiaoqian hugged her and patted, "You will tell your patients that they are sick because you are not paying attention to your consciousness and are not strong?"
Thanks to Xuan Lingjun’s 500 coins~ The few words I hate most are: you think too much, you get sick when you are small, you are hypocritical, you just can’t think about it... what I want to say is that no one is alike No one will have the exact same growth experience. Never stand on the moral high ground and talk about other people’s things, because the same experience will happen to you in the next second, maybe the person who is the person has the same performance. Not as good as others.
(End of this chapter)