novelraw Chapter 1201
Chapter 1201
Chapter 1201
"Recently, I tried to divert my attention, and it seemed to have some effect, but in the end... finally we did it..." Ye Jinyan's expression was rather distressed.
Qin Mengying said while taking notes on the paper, "Your method is correct, but it only treats the symptoms and not the root cause. In fact, a sex addict is like a patient with an eating disorder. The so-called recovery is not abstinence, but letting her regain Healthy sexual behavior and psychology. I heard the situation you described. I am afraid that her current situation is a bit serious, self-rejection, and even self-harm behavior. The most troublesome thing is that she rejects treatment..."
"Yes." Ye Jinyan looked serious.
Qin Mengying pondered for a while, and then asked, "Mr. Ye, how do you usually get along with this young lady?"
Ye Jinyan was a little embarrassed when he heard the words, and coughed lightly, "Every time we meet, it's basically... making love."
"May I ask, how many sexual partners does she have?" Qin Mengying continued to ask.
"I'm the only one, I'm sure of that." Ye Jinyan replied.
Qin Mengying nodded and came to a conclusion, "First, you need to know what her illness is; second, there is something wrong with the way you get along with her."
"Please advise Doctor Qin." Ye Jinyan bowed solemnly to her.
Qin Mengying got up hastily, "Mr. Ye, please sit down quickly. I can't talk about advice, it's just my own opinion. Since you really can't ask the first question, then you can only try hypnotism."
"Hypnotism? Can you do this?"
"I'm not good at it, I need a professional hypnotist, and there are certain risks."
Ye Jinyan's expression darkened when he heard the words, "What about the second question?"
Qin Mengying looked at him thoughtfully, "It can be seen that Mr. Ye loves this lady very much, but unfortunately, you don't seem to be very good at expressing your feelings. In fact, the best treatment for all mental illnesses only one."
"What is it?"
"Love."
"Love...?" Ye Jinyan murmured absently.
"The reason why she hates herself so much now, and even hates you, is because in her eyes, such behavior is evil and dirty, and you need to change her view, which only you can do .
Mr. Ye, recall that time you diverted attention from her, did she treat you better than usual? "Qin Mengying asked.
Ye Jinyan nodded again and again, "Yes! Although I was scolded bloody in the end, I didn't say anything extremely hurtful."
The same swear words, "Ye Jinyan, you're a liar and bastard" and "Ye Jinyan, I feel disgusted when I see you, and I don't want to see you again in my life", are two completely different levels.
Qin Mengying chuckled, "Try to pursue her! In fact, compared to using hypnotism, it is better for her to be honest with you."
"...Pursuing her?" Ye Jinyan was a little taken aback when he heard the words. He suddenly realized that he claimed to love her, but he never seemed to have pursued her properly. Every time they met, there were endless quarrels, love and quarrels.
He is a good gentleman in front of outsiders, but he loses his mind when he is in front of her.
"I... how should I pursue?" Ye Jinyan asked with some embarrassment, he had never pursued a woman before.
"Simple, similar to the romance in school days, it can even be childish, remember not to have any sexual purpose."
"Got it, I'll try it! Thank you, Dr. Qin! Thank you so much!"
(End of this chapter)