novelraw Chapter 130 130. Diagnosis
Chapter 130 130. Diagnosis
After greeting Little Wenger, Zheng Yunhao politely apologized to the psychiatrist, and then took Lin Miao to the study.As for Little Wenger, he is an acquaintance, it doesn't matter.With a doctor as an outsider, there is still some etiquette.
"Why is the psychiatrist here?" There was nothing to hide between the husband and wife, Zheng Yunhao was confused now, and there was no outsider in the study, so he asked whatever he wanted to ask.
Lin Miao didn't have any special reaction, so he explained honestly, "Show the rice grains and rice crackers."
"I'm asking, our son is fine, why did we invite a psychiatrist?" Everyone in the world has a mentality of shying away from medical treatment. They are afraid to go to the hospital when they are not feeling well. These rice grains and rice crackers are obviously healthy and can't be any healthier. Two boys, find a psychiatrist if you have nothing to do, isn't this just saying that the two of them are sick?Zheng Yunhao rejected this speculation, even if this person is the little wife, even though he understands that the little wife is for the good of the children.
"Just a normal mental health check."
Zheng Yunhao refused to accept this statement. He knew that something must have happened, otherwise he would not have invited the doctor suddenly. A normal examination should not be so sudden, but he guessed that Lin Miao was afraid that he would not want to tell her when he was not sure. As the father of the child, he has rights, doesn't he?He also has a responsibility to bear it with her, rather than placing these burdens on her alone.
Sighing, Zheng Yunhao put his hands on her shoulders, and said to her earnestly, "I must have called the doctor because I found something wrong. Is this why you are anxious recently? I am your husband and the father of the child. You don't need to be alone in your heart, I think I can share it for you, and I should share it for you."
Lin Miao took his hands on his shoulders, took a few steps back and leaned against the edge of the desk, was silent for a while, and after careful consideration, he said: "I'm not sure, I just feel that there is something wrong with the rice grains, please ask the doctor to take a look." .”
I really can't be in a hurry with her, why is it so hard to talk to someone who doesn't talk much!
Zheng Yunhao held his breath and nodded, "Tell me what's wrong. I also know that I need to rely on the doctor to confirm. I didn't find out what you said was wrong, so I'm curious, do you understand?"
"The development of rice grain's motor function is different from that of ordinary people. The coordination of limbs is not very coordinated. There are few flexible crawling activities that spontaneously start using both hands and feet. He can't crawl forward. He stubbornly crawls backward no matter what. He hasn't crawled much yet. He learned to walk... Except for the two of us and Miguo, he showed indiscriminate emotional reactions to other people, and there was no difference between closeness and distance. He interacted intelligently with his parents as you can see , completely ignore them, and only respond when you feed him. Even sometimes he lacks sufficient pleasant emotional feedback to your caressing behavior. He can play a Rubik's Cube for a long time without getting tired, and even forget to eat. Recently For several days, he would sleep with Rubik's Cube in his arms, and would cry and make a fuss when Rubik's Cube was not by his side."
Hearing these things at first really didn't sound right, Zheng Yunhao was startled, but he soon came back to his senses and raised an objection, "We went to the hospital before, and the doctor also said that crawling is not a skill that babies must master. He’s still young, he doesn’t get in touch with anyone except us and Migo, and it’s normal for him not to kiss anyone. As for the Rubik’s Cube...it’s not always the case when children like a toy. Are you thinking too seriously?"
"I also hope that I think too seriously." As a mother, Lin Miao certainly hopes that she has overcompensated herself. What parent wants their child to be sick?
They are both parents. Of course, they hope that their children will grow up healthy and healthy. But now that something is wrong, it is better to confirm it as soon as possible.
They didn't talk for a long time. Wenger was playing with two children when he went out. The psychiatrist stood aside and didn't know whether to observe the children or to be in a daze. The two nannies were also taking care of them. Touching rice grains and rice crackers.
In fact, Lin Miao had already communicated with the doctor on the phone about the situation of the rice grains, and even sent the monitoring at home to the doctor so that he could analyze and confirm it. Surveillance sometimes causes misunderstandings due to the shooting angle, and seeing and hearing with your own eyes can never be wrong.The little baby will not play tricks, and what he sees and hears is a true reflection.
The doctor's observation lasted for a week. During this week, he would come to the door every day during the day, doing nothing, just observing Mi Li's every move. He often saw him writing and drawing on the notebook he carried with him. , Zheng Yunhao was so bored that he really wanted to go over and grab the notebook to see what was written in it, is there so much to write!
A week later, the doctor said the conclusion came out.Zheng Yunhao and Lin Miao invited them to the study room where they could talk easily, and the two little meatballs fell asleep in the baby's room. The nannies watched, and little Wenger followed him in under the pretext that he was the godfather.
The doctor looked very serious, took out the notebook he had been carrying with him and wrote a lot of things, and spread it out, with a hint of regret in his tone, "I'm sorry, Mi Li was diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome."
The three behaved in three ways, Lin Miao breathed a sigh of relief, Zheng Yunhao was startled, and little Wenger had a strange expression...
Not in the mood to pay attention to the expressions of Lin Miao and Little Wenger, Zheng Yunhao was full of worry, and leaned forward while sitting on the sofa, and asked anxiously: "Asperger's syndrome? What is this disease? Doctor, can you explain in detail how it will affect his future life?"
"Asperger's syndrome belongs to autism spectrum disorder or pervasive developmental disorder. It has the same social interaction disorder as autism, limited interests and repetitive, stereotyped activities. It is a relatively common developmental behavioral disease in children. In terms of classification, it belongs to autism spectrum disorder or pervasive developmental disorder like autism, but it is different from autism. The most obvious difference from autism is that this disease has no obvious language and intellectual impairment. Its incidence rate is higher than that of typical autism Autism is a high-end form of high-functioning autism. Some people call it "genius disease". How common is this disease? Let me give you a few examples. Did Einstein know? What about Newton? Beethoven What? Hemingway? Marilyn Monroe? These people are all Asperger's syndrome patients. But this disease is often misdiagnosed as autism, and it is difficult to have a cure. I can be sure that rice grains are Asperger's syndrome His language and intelligence will not have any problems, and he may even be higher than the average person, but he should have a lot of problems in social interaction..."
"The manifestations of Asperger's disease can be divided into several age groups: 1. Infants, like rice grains, are overly obedient and obedient, have poor control over activities that use both hands and feet, and are too attached to certain boring toys. Playing tirelessly for a long time, he has no concept of closeness to caregivers, accepts or rejects everything, and lacks due emotional feedback. This is a mild symptom of Mi Li. He can accept his parents and younger brother. When he plays with you Can laugh and be naughty."
"In early childhood, patients and their relatives lack active emotional expression and lack of visual communication. After being placed in a group of young children, they will not take the initiative to participate in group activities, but play alone and enjoy themselves, that is, they will show empathy But if he is willing to contact with children of the same age, but in a clumsy way, he will express his love with rough touching, hugging, scratching, kissing or even biting. Some patients will learn language and walk later than normal children. "
"Before school age, they will be like little adults, with rigid and adult speaking behavior. Of course, individuals with severe symptoms will not be accepted by the group because of language defects. Compared with language, their motor ability is obviously poor, and small tools such as chopsticks and pens If it is not used well, the movements, rhythm and direction of dancing and gymnastics training are uncoordinated and lack aesthetic feeling.”
"At school age, if children with mild illnesses do not encounter obvious rejection by their peers, they will smoothly integrate into the group and become a relatively vulnerable member. But more often they are rejected and encouraged by their peers, and they are "lonely" for a long time. Sports are as usual In special cases, some children show strong interest and hobbies in cultural lessons, get the teacher's preference, and become the idols of the students, and their social defects will be covered up or ignored, most of the students because of this The aura of willingness to engage with him never helps them learn, imitate their peers, and gradually improve their social skills. But as their social complexity increases, their social deficits will become more and more obvious, clumsy motor skills It will limit them to participate in some group activities that are conducive to close peer relationships. From here, they will be left out at this stage. In the end, the children will become "lonely" after all, and some with severe symptoms will have conflicts with their classmates. Conflicts, so that they cannot continue their study and life at school, and they have to be hospitalized in a psychiatric institution, so they suspend or drop out of school, and lose the opportunity to receive formal education forever. Most importantly, some patients during this period cannot accept their loneliness and will subjectively fabricate a "Daydreaming", in this world they call the wind and rain, intoxicated, unable to extricate themselves, this performance will be regarded by some doctors as schizophrenic patients."
"Misdiagnosed as "schizophrenia" will still occur in adolescence until the age of 20. A small number of patients who have progressed steadily to the adult stage, because of their personality and some inherent defects, often find it difficult to fulfill their wishes in terms of employment and marriage... What I said is not comprehensive, but in fact, I want to tell you that there is no cure for this disease, and the best situation is that it can be improved."
The doctor was actually a little apologetic, what he said just now was so exciting that he couldn't hold back, thinking of this eased his emotions, and comforted him: "Perhaps you don't have to worry too much, your child may also become the next Einstein and Newton. "
The amount of information was so large that Zheng Yunhao couldn't digest it for a while. After digesting it for a long time, he summed up a few key points: First, it is high-functioning autism, which has no effect on IQ, and may even be a genius.Second, it is difficult to heal.Third, interpersonal relationships will be very difficult in the future, and even affect employment and marriage.
The doctor didn't say anything else after he finished speaking, and gave the parents enough time to accept. During this period, he was observing the reactions of Zheng Yunhao and Lin Miao. It made him very puzzled, and there was no panic on his face. He had seen many mothers break down and cry immediately. When he was thinking about his mother's unusual reaction, he heard a sentence that moved everyone.
"I don't want him to become Einstein or Newton, I just hope he can live happily."
The author has something to say: It’s not an IQ test. Rice grains are really sick. AS (Asperger’s Syndrome) is not a genetic disease, but like many diseases, the offspring with a history of this disease are more likely to suffer from it than ordinary people . PS: I am in a good mood today, leave a message to send a red envelope~~ Maybe there will be more drops in the evening?