After Rebirth, the Celebrity Daughter is the Medical Expert!

Chapter 576 - 453: Second Update

——"Tangtang should have some words to say, right? You’re so likable, your emotional intelligence can’t be that lacking."

"Thank you for the compliment, Mr. Ma." Zhou Tang responded cheerfully to Ma Zhou with a cupped fist, "The family environment I grew up in has always been quite harmonious."

Today, due to the style of the program, I didn’t wear any special makeup, but this person is naturally handsome, with striking features, especially those captivating eyes, which are alluring even without makeup.

His gaze gently swept across the surroundings, yet the few people sitting with him, all with substantial inner strength, remained completely unaffected.

However, the program staff members not far away at work didn’t possess such composure.

Especially the young girls in the team, even though Zhou Tang’s gaze didn’t fall on them, they blushed one by one.

"Keep focused, work seriously."

As a result, the program’s director not only had to monitor the shooting status but also had to frequently remind the young ones around to take it easy.

Don’t just get captivated by the looks of these two idols and forget the work at hand.

As for the attitude of the surrounding staff, Zhou Tang might be aware or not, but in any case, he was completely unaffected and continued to speak eloquently, "My parents have a great relationship, they belong to that kind of independently dependent relationship model. Mainly my mom, she’s incredibly stable. Ever since I was a child, I’ve never seen her lose her temper, especially with me, she’s never lost her temper. When she does with my dad, she might say a few things, but she quickly adjusts her emotions. My dad is also willing to listen to my mom in daily life. One thing I remember vividly..."

Zhou Tang smiled broadly, "Since I can remember, one thing my dad told me was ’Your mom is the pillar of our family, you have to listen to her well. If you don’t, and make her upset, I’m telling you, we’ll both have a hard time.’ So, I’ve basically never seen them argue, and their education for me was not very interfering, very respectful. From a young age till now, they’ve only had one request for me, ’Don’t commit any crimes, as long as you steer clear of these, do whatever you want.’ So, as long as I don’t make principled mistakes, they support whatever I want to do, like pursuing art, enrolling in an art school, entering the entertainment circle, and even when it comes to matters of love, they never interfere."

"So, you had a high degree of freedom at home." He Yuan looked on with envy.

"Yes." Zhou Tang nodded with a smile, "So I’m very grateful to my parents for always supporting me to be myself."

"Does Tangtang’s kind of original family atmosphere and the education given by his parents count as good family education?" Ma Zhou asked Ning Youguang.

"Parents with less anxiety, who enjoy the process of meeting their children’s ever-changing needs, would have a positive impact on their children, helping them become emotionally self-regulating individuals who can trust others, have a positive view of themselves, and maintain an optimistic outlook. These capabilities form the basis of confidence and self-esteem and are why people who grow up with them tend to have higher emotional intelligence."

"And on the contrary?" Ma Zhou listened with a serious face.

"Conversely, if a family has suppressed, easily angered parents who are busy or emotionally neglectful of their children due to other issues, their children might not find what they’re searching for in their parents’ reactions. They might not see themselves as lovable or welcomed, considering themselves redundant, disappointing, even the source of all evil, or merely an optional presence. These damaging emotional connections deeply affect the children. Usually, children from such original families grow up closing off areas of their brain related to safety, wholeness, and openness, triggering neurological responses tied to parents’ painful emotional states. They also feel boredom and emptiness, not finding a sense of presence in the family. Once this mindset sets in, during adolescence they are more prone to losing control, with their rebellious period likely to last longer than children growing up in normal family environments."

"Do some of these children even go on to commit unlawful acts in society?" He Yuan asked.

"There is that possibility." Ning Youguang’s expression turned calmer.

Ma Zhou also sighed deeply, "So I’ve read an investigation before, saying that many people were asked what their biggest regret in life was when they were dying. Surprisingly, it’s neither failing to achieve dreams nor making a lot of money, or reaching a certain societal level. Instead, it’s not properly educating their children or spending time with their family..."

"Yes, yes." He Yuan nodded, "I’ve read about this survey as well."

"In everyday life, we often hear people say, ’If I didn’t have to work so hard, my child’s grades wouldn’t be like this,’ or ’If I had that much time, I could have as well. Actually, that’s a paradox. The fact is, if you didn’t do it at the time, it means your cognition and awareness didn’t allow it back then. ’I couldn’t’ is the reality. What you could truly do has long been transformed into action." Ning Youguang’s gentle gaze softly rested on the people around, "Many people around us, looking back at past people and events, often feel more anxious the more they think because there’s always an obsession that they could have done a bit better, which actually isn’t necessary. Because even with certain lessons learned, if they went back to relive the past, it’s hard to do much better. In fact, concerns and lost enthusiasm might make things worse."

"So Mr. Ning means that those who didn’t educate their children well as kids won’t do better even if given another chance?" Ma Zhou asked with interest.

"Yes." Ning Youguang nodded, "Unless, as Mr. He said earlier, they first improve their own personality and then learn family education systematically before deciding to have children. Only then can they be competent in the ’parent’ role and raise their children well."

"This viewpoint is quite novel." Zhou Tang looked at Ning Youguang with a smile.

"Saying it like that, Mr. Ning..." Ma Zhou lightly scratched his head, "there are many of those around us who are unqualified parents."

He Yuan also looked at Ning Youguang and sighed, "Your standards are so high, you’ll scare away a lot of young people."

Ning Youguang smiled, "I’m just sharing some of my own insights."