After Rebirth, the Celebrity Daughter is the Medical Expert!

Chapter 551 - 431: Second Update

Whatever those around him told him not to do, he was determined to do it.

Ning Youguang understood very well Xie Yizun’s psychology of wanting to find a sense of satisfaction in resisting others because his needs weren’t met in the company.

This also led to——"But when you focus on opposing them, you forget your true goal."

"I know I was wrong." Xie Yizun admitted his mistake obediently.

"It’s okay to be wrong. We just need to get back on track." Ning Youguang comforted him, "When problems arise, solve them. Think about outcomes with your goals in mind."

"I got it." Xie Yizun said, "In the future, when I encounter problems, I’ll think carefully about what the best way to handle them is."

"It’s already very good that you can think this way." Ning Youguang thought his brother was very smart and quick to understand, "When do you want to go to the company?"

"Let’s have mom contact the company in the next couple of days." Xie Yizun said, "But I want to change dorms."

"Do you want to change dorms because your roommates and friends deceived you?" Ning Youguang asked.

"Yes." Xie Yizun frowned, "I don’t want to face them anymore."

"You can change dorms." Ning Youguang said, "But not wanting to face them, that’s something you can’t achieve, unless someone helps you drive away all those you don’t want to face from the company."

Xie Yizun knew that wasn’t possible; it wasn’t as if the entertainment company was owned by his family.

"Then what should I do?" he asked irritably, "I don’t want to deal with them."

"If you don’t want to deal with them, you can choose not to." Ning Youguang said, "You have the right to choose your friends."

"Then who should I interact with?" Xie Yizun, once bitten by a snake, was now quite wary.

"I don’t know about that, but I can share my principles of making friends with you."

"What kind of friendship principles?"

"Spend time with people who don’t exhaust you, meet people you like." Ning Youguang’s attitude was very carefree.

"I probably understand liking, but I’m not quite sure about not exhausting." Xie Yizun asked seriously.

"If you don’t understand, you can do this." Ning Youguang explained in detail, "In the future, no matter who you hang out with, if someone makes you uncomfortable or feel like they’re draining you, just distance yourself from them."

"What if they’re coming with good intentions?" Xie Yizun asked again, "Sometimes some people do have my best interests at heart, but being around them is still uncomfortable."

"Then communicate with them properly, and once you realize you’re uncomfortable, let them know." Ning Youguang said, "Those who truly love you won’t want you to be uncomfortable, and once you tell them, they’ll be willing to adjust how they treat you. During this process, you need to learn to be wary of relationships where love is used as a guise to restrain you, whether it’s a family member, colleague, friend, or future partner."

"Hmm, I will remember."

"It’s not just about remembering; the most important thing is to apply it in real life."

"I understand."

"Good that you understand." Ning Youguang smiled, "But Yiyi, do you really plan to distance yourself from anyone you’re uncomfortable with and avoid anyone else who makes you uneasy?"

"Isn’t that okay?" Xie Yizun asked.

"It is." Ning Youguang said, "But there are so many people in this world. There are always some people who make us uncomfortable and whom we cannot avoid. What will you do then?"

Xie Yizun fell silent, and after a while, he shook his head in confusion, "I don’t know."

Interpersonal relationships are always a substantial lesson everyone must face. Some were born strong, while others were not.

Xie Yizun, who was somewhat of a "left-behind child" since he was young, was obviously the latter.

"Do you know the answer?" Xie Yizun asked Ning Youguang, "Can you tell me?"

"The rule is quite simple." Ning Youguang smiled, "Allow others to be themselves, and also allow yourself to be yourself. Understand each other if you can; if not, at least respect each other. Do not control, do not force, and do not compromise."

"I understand."

"Then shall we discuss your desire to debut?" Ning Youguang shifted to another important topic.

"Okay."

"Mom told me that your company thinks you perform well and your basic skills are great, but they still want you to debut a bit later." Ning Youguang shared information from Xia Youqing with Xie Yizun, "They want you to strengthen your abilities further."

"Why?" Xie Yizun didn’t understand, "I’ve learned what I should have learned and mastered what I should have mastered. Those in the company who are not as good as I am can go out and act, perform, and appear on shows. Why can’t I?"

"Others are others, and you are you." Ning Youguang’s clear gaze met Xie Yizun’s anxious face, "Each life has a different way of coming into the world, different inherent talents, so naturally, the path taken will be different too. You might feel unbalanced about others debuting early, but have you thought about how your goals in joining the company might differ?"

"No." Xie Yizun shook his head.

"Alright, then I’ll tell you now." Ning Youguang said, "Mom says that those who haven’t solidified their basic skills before taking jobs outside do so because the company is exploiting them while they themselves want quick fame, all for immediate benefits."

At sixteen, Xie Yizun didn’t understand these business dealings and nuances.

But he understood Ning Youguang’s words.

He no longer felt jealous of those who could debut right upon entering the company. He began to worry a bit for them, "Can they avoid this?"

"That I don’t know." Ning Youguang slowly shook her head, "If you’re worried about them, you can offer advice to your friends when necessary, but don’t force your views on them."

Xie Yizun felt a bit heavy-hearted and stifled, "Sis, I suddenly feel a bit naive and also very lucky."

"Why do you say that?" Ning Youguang asked softly.

"I suddenly realized, even though mom said she won’t help me in the entertainment circle, that everything should rely on myself..." Xie Yizun gritted his teeth, "As long as I’m her son, I’ll inevitably receive preferential treatment in the circle."

Ning Youguang smiled, "It’s good that you realized this."

Xie Yizun felt a bit desolate, "I once thought I could rely entirely on myself, but now I realize that no matter what I achieve in the future, I can’t escape my family’s support."

"Yes." Ning Youguang said calmly and objectively, "Leading a privileged life is your fortune. Don’t consider it a burden or a liability. Playing coy despite having clear advantages is a bit unappealing."